sex offender who violently raped a preteen years ago and now is a duh attending school events around children. Commenter use the fact that he's a duh as proof that he's "rehabilitated" October 03, 2024 | Registered: 6 months ago Posts: 16 |
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Elementary school teacher married to child rapist
I started seeing a registered sex offender attending school events, so i asked the principal of he is allowed to be there. I got a lot of non answers, but was told essentially sex offenders are only allowed if they have a child at the school.
I did a little more digging and it turns out one of the teachers is married to him. This is going to potentially be my child's teacher next year. She may be a great teacher but i am uncomfortable with the thought she chose to marry a child rapist. I don't trust her morals, and don't trust her as a mandated reporter of abuse.
For some context the offense was 20 years so but it was violent and went on for 2 years against a preteen girl. An i overreacting here? I get the impression the principal wants to keep it hush hush..
EDIT for common questions: He was in his 20s at the time of the offense. They have a child together that is a student at the school. I know the full details of his offense through my employment, but it would likely be illegal to disclose to the general public, wife(teacher) knows offense as well and married him while he was on parole.
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No. He raped a preteen for 2 years while in his mid 20s. I'm happy to judge him for that. I'm not digging, I saw him at the school, and I know him to be a SO. I'm not convicting her, i just don't trust her.
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misstucson
Came here to say this. It sounds like he did his time and is off parole. He has a wife and child and my guess is he is putting his indiscretion in the past. His wife is innocent in all of this.
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Cambion
Yes because as we all know, breeding absolves you of all wrongdoing. Because it's not like you can be an abuser AND a parent at the same time.
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And WTF kind of school policy is it that sex offenders can be allowed to teach if they have kids?? Like that sounds like a lawsuit waiting to fucking happen if the rapist decides to abuse a student and the school knowingly allowed him to work with kids.
I wonder why the principal is allowing this to go on. Judging by the way the principal wants to sweep this whole thing under the rug, I wonder what the angle is that benefits the principal. Is the rapist is a relative of the rapist? Or is the principal just afraid of getting in trouble for knowingly hiring a child abuser?
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mumofsixbirds
Don't these morons understand that predators can and will disguise themselves as hardworking family men, priests, children's birthday party clowns, and other so-called "trustworthy individuals" to create a disguise so they blend in with the rest of society and have access to more victims?
Idiots. Every single last one of 'em.
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To make matters worse many of the comments defending the predator being at the school are teachers: teachers in charge of underage children. Suddenly the rash of teachers getting caught abusing their students doesn't seem so surprising.
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Cambion
Yes because as we all know, breeding absolves you of all wrongdoing. Because it's not like you can be an abuser AND a parent at the same time.
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And WTF kind of school policy is it that sex offenders can be allowed to teach if they have kids?? Like that sounds like a lawsuit waiting to fucking happen if the rapist decides to abuse a student and the school knowingly allowed him to work with kids.
I wonder why the principal is allowing this to go on. Judging by the way the principal wants to sweep this whole thing under the rug, I wonder what the angle is that benefits the principal. Is the rapist is a relative of the rapist? Or is the principal just afraid of getting in trouble for knowingly hiring a child abuser?
To make matters worse many of the comments defending the predator being at the school are teachers: teachers in charge of underage children. Suddenly the rash of teachers getting caught abusing their students doesn't seem so surprising.
It seems that breeders can do no wrong in society. Meanwhile us Childfree being get wrongly suspected of being creeps, nutters and freaks for not having sprogged, especially if we're also introverted.Quote
mumofsixbirds
Don't these morons understand that predators can and will disguise themselves as hardworking family men, priests, children's birthday party clowns, and other so-called "trustworthy individuals" to create a disguise so they blend in with the rest of society and have access to more victims?
Idiots. Every single last one of 'em.
Case in point : John Wayne Gacy worked as a well-loved clown that visited sick children in hospitals, all the while raping and murdering dozens of underage males. When a serial killer is caught, their neighbors often remark "But he was such a nice guy" .
The weird thing is that while these predators blend in as famblee men, priests, well-loved clowns, society is ready to crucify the misfit or the loner. There was a story in the UK about a childfree man who lived alone , who was burned alive by a mob of neighbors after he was falsely accused of being a pedo for taking pictures of th vandals who were destroying his garden.
Where the fuck is that rage when Daddy/Fuck-of-the-Month/Priest BadTouch is actually molesting junior? Where are the vigilantes then? Oh wait, the village is too busy looking the other way and/or calling the victim a liar because a well-liked charismatic individual couldn't possibly be evil.
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Re: sex offender who violently raped a preteen years ago and now is a duh attending school events around children. Commenter use the fact that he's a duh as proof that he's "rehabilitated" October 06, 2024 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 3,644 |
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Also, aren't sex offenders who commit crimes against children usually supposed to stay a certain distance away from schools and playgrounds? How did this asshole get around that rule? Does it vary by state?