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Anyway, it seems to me that there MAY not be a Humble Bragging Martyr Moos group for the parents of actual Tards, but everyone seems really PROUD to have a child "on the spectrum".
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Re: What if an Infertile Myrtle ended up getting a Tard? How would they react? November 28, 2024 | Registered: 7 months ago Posts: 18 |
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Anyway, it seems to me that there MAY not be a Humble Bragging Martyr Moos group for the parents of actual Tards, but everyone seems really PROUD to have a child "on the spectrum".
I think some parents want their kids to be autistic because the kids are absolutely rotten little bastards and the parents want to have a scapegoat for their behavior instead of having to admit it's their shitty parenting causing all the problems. It's a harder pill to swallow when your kid is an asshole because you suck at your job, but when you can pin their behavior on an incurable mental illness, it gives them an excuse. Not only for the behavior, but they can just throw their hands up and go, "Welp he's got autism, can't do nothin' with him!"
That way, they don't have to bother trying to fix their brat's bad behavior, so they can simply expect relatives, strangers and teachers to just shut up and deal with it.
Re: What if an Infertile Myrtle ended up getting a Tard? How would they react? November 28, 2024 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 3,658 |
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Parents were ashamed to admit to have an autard or even an ADHD kid. If the kid was on the higher end of the spectrum (able to talk and sort of function like a human) the parents would simply refuse to get a diagnosis for them
When I was adopted I came with a kiddie crazy check, but this was in 1970 long before they were in vogue. My pre-adoption history was just nasty and I wasn't meeting milestones. I'd be diagnosed as mildly autistic in 1974 at age 4 or 5.
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