Mother's killed by their own sons

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/mar/05/you-took-the-life-of-someone-who-had-given-you-life-the-women-killed-by-their-sons

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Multiple horrifying aspects to this article.

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A report has revealed that more than 170 mothers across the UK have been killed by their sons in the past 15 years – nearly one in 10 of all women who died at the hands of men.

10 fucking %. That is an incredibly high chance considering it's "the odds that if you're murdered it's your male child who will do it."

Also horrible is the number of kids who were known to be seriously mentally ill, and yet the legal system didn't protect these women. It reminds me of the woman who left the letter saying if she was killed, it was her son who did it, and she was right. He was severely autistic, iirc, and had grown taller than her and massively violent. He did indeed eventually murder her. She knew it was coming, but there were no societal safeguards in place to stop him or protect her.

I don't know what the solution is, but goddamn, we need one. This is beyond "just don't have kids," because obviously these guys are a menace to everyone around them, not just their mothers.

I have mixed feelings about this. some of these little shits are just born bad too. but mommy can't kick their little bastards out. think back to that douchbag 'skywalker'. dad finally got the awtard into a home where he could have been MANAGED properly but stupid ass mootard ran her little ass down and took him home. she paid with her life a few days later.. and awtard ended up .. either jail or another lockdown facility. frankly, he should have been taken out and shot imo. either way, dumbass mom paid for it.

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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

My uncle's wife spent the last 26 years of her life looking after their son who developed Muscular Dystropy that he was diagnosed with at age 28, he died of COVID last fall at age 54. His body was too far gone to handle it
Her husband, my uncle, fought tooth and nail to have him forced into a gov't care facility which is a nice place where they are from, plus my cousin had a ton of support from family, but she would not allow it. She had two heart attacks from the stress of keeping him going and watched him die at the end. They lived together in the same building and she was his main caretaker with help from gov't workers and her family. She blamed herself for passing the MD gene to him and now she is 78 and has cancer. It is an awful tragedy.

I find that men will take a more logical, less emotional appoach to it all and some moos will destroy themsleves trying to look after a lost cause. A lot of my family sees this woman as a martyr and probably a lot of people see women like her as "how a woman should be"

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My uncle's wife spent the last 26 years of her life looking after their son who developed Muscular Dystropy that he was diagnosed with at age 28, he died of COVID last fall at age 54. His body was too far gone to handle it
Her husband, my uncle, fought tooth and nail to have him forced into a gov't care facility which is a nice place where they are from, plus my cousin had a ton of support from family, but she would not allow it. She had two heart attacks from the stress of keeping him going and watched him die at the end. They lived together in the same building and she was his main caretaker with help from gov't workers and her family. She blamed herself for passing the MD gene to him and now she is 78 and has cancer. It is an awful tragedy.

I find that men will take a more logical, less emotional appoach to it all and some moos will destroy themsleves trying to look after a lost cause. A lot of my family sees this woman as a martyr and probably a lot of people see women like her as "how a woman should be"

Women/girls are 100% pushed into this role from pretty much birth. My guess is that if they have kids lots of people remind them that they are stuck with the kid until it becomes independent and to push the martyr angle. Ironic that lots of men will walk away immediately and suffer very little for doing so. Many of them manage to evade brat support on top of everything else.

I know there are exceptions but most every woman I've known can and do keep a house reasonably clean and straightened. If they don't there is a good reason for it. Most men I've known refuse to keep a house reasonably clean and straightened. Anymore, I brace myself if I know I'll be at a man's house for the first time because I've seen some..ewww....stuff.

It isn't that different from the men who think "just showing up" sometimes as promised means they're entitled to sex on tap and all the other benefits of a relationship. And these same women who were still hoping for the original kind acts to return from their man are shocked when the guy who morphed into "just showing up" doesn't step up when a brat is involved. The bar is low and since so many men act like this it ends up being its own echo chamber. Women ask for advice from other women who accept this crap and the cycle repeats itself.

Unfortunately, lots of men think cleaning and caretaking is a woman's job. I suspect it is going to take hundreds of years for this mindset to fade.

Did you know there is a supposed "kink" where a partner expects their significant other(s) to clean up after them? And while I don't have the statistics, I'd bet the vast majority of these expectations come from men. I'm actually shocked this "kink" is considered a "kink" because it seems like something literally any adult would do if they thought they could get away with it. I suspect some file it under "kink" so they can accuse others of "kink shaming" if they dare to accuse that person of taking advantage of others.

I highly doubt there is a person who has ever lived that was turned off by coming home to a house cleaned by their significant other. Duh.

I had one man tell me he gets really turned on by watching his SO clean. We never went out because I wasn't going to clean his place (EVER) and there is no way I was going to be okay with him hiring someone to clean his place.

There was this long-time ad running for years in Craiglist where a man wanted to offer a woman a room to live in for free of charge in exchange for her cleaning the place. While naked. I'm positive that this man had no intentions of having sexual relations with his boarder. Ha.

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I have mixed feelings about this. some of these little shits are just born bad too. but mommy can't kick their little bastards out. think back to that douchbag 'skywalker'. dad finally got the awtard into a home where he could have been MANAGED properly but stupid ass mootard ran her little ass down and took him home. she paid with her life a few days later.. and awtard ended up .. either jail or another lockdown facility. frankly, he should have been taken out and shot imo. either way, dumbass mom paid for it.

I think lots of mombies are literally guilted into dying before letting their brats move into a home. They'll either work themselves into the ground or the brat will kill them. Thus, mombies!

Ironically it seems like it is the good kids that always have the abusive/narcissistic parunts who want to kick them out the minute they turn 18.

We've seen so many instances where good stepparents leave because they're given zero consideration from their spouse who thinks the brats should always come first without exception. And brats that know they will always come first will manipulate this situation every time because that is part of their development/learning as brats.

Having to deal with daily manipulation from a brat would be enough in itself for me to refuse to be a parent. Even if it is part of their healthy learning cycle - count me out!