Autard narcs on his roommate for smoking weed, gets punched

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My cousin John has autism and if I’m being honest, despite that he’s been difficult to deal with and I refuse to spend much time with him outside of holidays and family events. He’s a big rules guy and with him everything needs to be done by the book. You’re going 40 in a 35? That means you deserve a speeding ticket. You didn’t pay the 5¢ plastic bag fee at self checkout? Your shoplifting and a store manager needs to be notified. He would also report kids for things like dress code violations and having cigarettes when he was in high school. All that with the fact that he’s a motor mouth who doesn’t stop talking (or “infodumping” as he calls it) makes him a pretty unlikable character and for that I choose not to be around him.

Now he and my aunt and uncle decided it’s time to learn how to live on his own and they rented him a room in a house. I don’t understand why they thought it would be a good idea for John to move into a home with strangers who probably aren’t used to dealing with people like him but they apparently did.

One of his roommates is a guy named Marc. I know Marc personally. We’re not close friends or anything but there’s also no animosity between us. He’s been a bit down on his luck and also has a bit of a temper but otherwise a good dude and we have plenty of mutual friends. Marc also likes to smoke weed. We live in a state where weed is not yet legal. I’m sure you can tell where this is going.

Literally within the first week John moved in he smelled the weed and called the police on marc. No conversation about how he doesn’t like the smell and to please do a better job concealing it, straight to the cops. He also didn’t hide the fact that he was the one who called them once they showed up 2 hours later. Marc wasn’t smoking it in the house, it was just really potent shit and he left his mason jar open by accident.

John let the cops in and according to Marc it was clear they didn’t want to be there but they had to write him a misdemeanor ticket.

Now Marc’s new job required a clean record with nothing other than traffic violations and he lost that job once they found out about what happened. Marc came home from work after they fired him and punched John in the face. Needless to say Marc got arrested and has also been asked to move out due to the incident.

I heard this story through my cousin and his parents at thanksgiving and also Marc after the fact. I just shook my head and told cousin “Buddy, you 100% deserved it, and I hope you learned an important lesson from this”. It’s been over a week since thanksgiving and my parents are still asking me to apologize to keep the peace. Much of my extended family also called me out for what I said. To make things even more dramatic, my aunt uncle and John are planning to boycott Christmas dinner and new years if I attend without apologizing first. However my other cousin, John’s little sister texted me and said she 100% agreed with me but couldn’t say anything without getting punished

John sounds like an insufferable prick.

Honestly John's parents have set him up for a life of misery given the fact they not only failed to teach him basic social skills (or at least behave in a manner that doesn't majorly piss people off) but also threw him to the wolves by having him live with strangers. The dude is clearly incapable of living with others. I'll never understand breeders who coddle their spawn and then toss them out to the wolves,

I also get the feeling that John was a total GoldenPenis growing up.

I'm surprised he didn't get his ass beat earlier on in high school. Even most childhood snitches grow out of it early on due to either becoming pariahs or getting their asses beat or simply maturing.

I do not see a bright future for John. If He continues to act like an insufferable asshole and snitch:

• He will become a complete pariah . Nobody will want to be friends or even associate with him. People won't trust him at all with anything. Coworkers will likely try to fuck with him. Even most authority figures/bosses will eventually despise him.
• He will make enemies literally wherever he goes. Which is foolish and a potentially very dangerous thing to do. especially if the enemies are roommates. Roommates know where you sleep and probably where you store your food.
• He will eventually piss off the wrong person and it won't be pretty. They aren't gonna care that he's an autard. While a child autard may get a bit of a pass, an adult one isn't.

Hope this narc can afford to live alone because that is where he is headed. Hopefully he won't destroy any more lives in the meantime.

I worked with a John. He'd march straight into the manager's office and tattle on me if I didn't invite him to eat lunch with me. I worked with over 20 men and one or two women. And I know he'd do this because my idiot manager tried to make it my problem. I refused to invite anyone to go with me to lunch that wasn't 100% voluntary. And I told my manager numerous times that no one at work was entitled to my attention while I was eating lunch and off the clock and that John made me very uncomfortable.

John wouldn't screw with the men we worked with. But since I'm a woman he felt entitled to be in my space and make demands. He made sure to be within eye distance around lunch time. If he saw me leave my desk around lunch time he would follow me. I had to go out of my way to evade the fuck. He'd stake out where my car was parked and watch for me to leave and run out there after me. I literally had to evade him going into work, leaving for lunch and leaving after work.

It got to the point where I couldn't even have a conversation with anyone else at work because he'd march into the manager's office and accuse me of not including him in the conversation. I started leaving for lunch every day so I could have a break from him.

There were many, many incidences from the John I worked with but any time he felt slighted or overlooked he'd immediately go into my manager's office and report the ones who hurt his pwecious widdle feelfeels. It got to the point where it was no longer a surprise to be invited daily into the manager's office to hear how John's feelings were hurt. I attempted to reason with the manager and told him that I don't owe John anything but he was a lazy shit who never helped or acted like management. He was there to collect a paycheck and count down the days to his retirement.

After years of putting up with this John became the work joke and all his paranoia actually had a spark of truth. This was after the coworker I ate lunch with was also pulled multiple times into the manager's office for questioning. We would leave every day to have an escape from John.

One day John accused me of coming in on the weekend and doing his work.....just to spite him and without any evidence to prove I did this. I wasn't paid to come in on the weekends and never once did his work anyways. I was again pulled into the manager's office and asked if I came into the office and did John's work over the weekend. I asked the manager what proof he had that I did this, he had none. I told the manager it was either him or me and to make a decision. He fired John.

Johns' dad was successful and set up a trust for John. My guess is that he did this to keep John the fuck away from him after protecting him until he graduated from college. But it was very obvious that any time John felt the least bit slighted as a kid he never had to suck it up, someone always made sure that John's ass was kissed.

John needs to be a part of an HOA if he likes humping the rule book this hard.

Between causing the roommate to get fired and charged with a misdemeanor, John is lucky that all he got was punched. His parents should have taught him a very important life rule: snitches get stitches. Tattling might be harmless in grade school when the worst you might get is shoved on the playground or your lunch money stolen. But if you don't know enough to keep your dick holster shut in adulthood, that's a real good way to get hurt, harassed or stalked. And nobody is going to give a damn that he's a tard either.

I get that not everyone is okay with weed, but this is something that could have been a discussion with the roommate instead of calling the police immediately. My roomies in college smoked and the legal aspect of it doesn't bother me, but the odor gave me a bloody horrible headache. Since I liked my roomies, instead of tattling to the RA every time they got high, I would just go to the arcade or go hang with my friends for a bit because it was their room too. I even covered for them when one of them left her pipe out on the coffee table during inspection. I spotted it while the RA was in another room and shoved it in my pocket, then gave it back to her later.

It sounds like John needs to not live with other people. Everyone breaks the rules here and there, some more than others. He's gonna get his ass blown full of holes one of these days when his idiot parents stick him in a room with someone who isn't tolerant of his horse shit. He also doesn't seem to have the sense to understand that it is not worth fucking with someone's life because they put their plastic bottle in the trash instead of the recycling bin. People are nuts anymore and will not hesitate to follow you home and kill you because they feel you wronged or inconvenienced them.

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I also get the feeling that John was a total GoldenPenis growing up.

And I suspect he was rewarded/praised heavily for ratting on others too. Even his mutant tard brain can connect the dots that snitching = validation.

We need to move all the Johns into one house and let them tattle each other to death. Hunger games style!

I guess people with autism commonly have OCD as a co-disorder. People with OCD can be the moralistic types that are obsessed with rule following and with autism they can't see where poor social decisions are going to take them.
Parent raising one of these guys would have to teach them social skills, instead of sending them into the world with their strange ways, sending them to the wolves.
Someone once said that if your family does not raise you right the world will in it's place and it will be ugly.

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John sounds like an insufferable prick.

EVERYBODY in this story sounds like an insufferable prick.

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Between causing the roommate to get fired and charged with a misdemeanor, John is lucky that all he got was punched. His parents should have taught him a very important life rule: snitches get stitches. Tattling might be harmless in grade school when the worst you might get is shoved on the playground or your lunch money stolen. But if you don't know enough to keep your dick holster shut in adulthood, that's a real good way to get hurt, harassed or stalked. And nobody is going to give a damn that he's a tard either.

This is very true. A child tard may get a bit of wiggle room, but nobody is going to cut an adult tard some slack, especially if he goes around ruining people's lives. I forsee him getting jumped in the future or perhaps getting his food fucked with by a roommate or worse.

It seems that someone in the comments is on john's side: Here it is

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Literally within the first week John moved in he smelled the weed and called the police on marc. No conversation about how he doesn’t like the smell and to please do a better job concealing it, straight to the cops.

I'd do the same, if I were John, and I'm probably not even autistic. (At least I haven't been diagnosed, although some people in my family think I may be on the spectre.) The necessary disclaimer here is that I live in Bulgaria and here weed is not legal and won't be legalized in the foreseeable future.

Still, if I caught someone from my family smoking, I'd have a conversation with them, but if it was just a roommate and I caught him smoking where I live - nah, fuck that, I'm reporting him to the police before he gets me in trouble with the law.

And I'm sorry, but if you break the law and lose your job because of it, that's on you, not on the one who's reported you. It doesn't matter if you think the law is just. Weed proponents love blabbering about their drug of choice not being addictive - well, if it's not addictive, you should be able to refrain from using it when your livelihood depends on this.

Yikes

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I guess people with autism commonly have OCD as a co-disorder. People with OCD can be the moralistic types that are obsessed with rule following and with autism they can't see where poor social decisions are going to take them.
Parent raising one of these guys would have to teach them social skills, instead of sending them into the world with their strange ways, sending them to the wolves.
Someone once said that if your family does not raise you right the world will in it's place and it will be ugly.

Yup this is so true. When these brats go out into the real world, the streets quickly put them in their place.

A lot of autards are real sticklers for "rulez". I am so sick of these fucking creatures...there have always been nutcases but autards seem to be multiplying faster than gerbils nowadays.

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"I have found little that is 'good' about human beings on the whole. In my experience most of them are trash, no matter whether they publicly subscribe to this or that ethical doctrine or to none at all."
~Sigmund Freud

Personally, I have thought about this. given the increasing number of cameras of all types it may not matter. but.. how to beat someone up and not be identified? I got this idea when watching a fight between two students. one made the mistake of wearing a jacket that was open. his opponent simply reached over his head, pulled the jacket over his face and whaled away on him. beat someone up?? plan.. and make sure you bring a sack.. if they can't see they can't identify.. and I may well get flagged for this.. dealing with pricks like the two here.. document document document. write all the interactions down involving this cretin..including the incel manager.

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