If you were raised by toxic parents...

Hello,

I recently set up a Facebook group called Child-free Off-Spring of Toxic Parents. The traditional "grown kids of narcissists" and estranged adult kid groups are too breeder-centric. People will go on and on about how their parents did them wrong and then go and have kids and repeat the cycle. People say that they will do better than their own parents, but they rarely do. They might not do what their parents did to them, but they''ll do something else bad. They will allow the toxic grandmoo or pedo grand-duh to be around their kids because "famblee!". Or they'll be too cheap or broke to get a real babysitter so they will have their parents do it and fuck up a whole new generation. I am the adult off spring of a deadbeat dad and a toxic moo who kept comparing me to said dad. I just can't with groups who allow breeders in them because the same toxic dynamics just keeps repeating. It's nauseating. There comes a point where you seriously need to ask yourself if a toxic tree really needs more branches. People want kids but don't think about what is best for the resulting kids.

Anyhoo, here's the link if you want to join: Childfree Offspring of Toxic Parents . I personally don't care who knows I am a member/admin of a childfree group. I am not that cowardly.

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"I have found little that is 'good' about human beings on the whole. In my experience most of them are trash, no matter whether they publicly subscribe to this or that ethical doctrine or to none at all."
~Sigmund Freud