(more of the same, force a CF into giving you grandbabyees because nothing is more important than that, having kids and ruining your life so grandma can spend a couple hours w/ them maybe maybe maybe every month if they live reasonably close. Sounds like a greaaat plan!)
From the CF subreddit:
Mom said “
Someone please rape my daughter so she will have kids” because i said i don’t want kids
(17f) I genuinely don’t understand it. Looking at my mom’s life, it feels like it’s been 70% struggle and 30% enjoyment. She’s worked incredibly hard, sacrificed so much, and dealt with constant stress. Seeing that makes me wonder why so many people fight so hard to have kids in the first place. What is the payoff that makes it worth it for them? Me and my siblings don’t even bring much value to her life tbh.
What frustrates me even more is that
she keeps telling me I have to give her grandkids someday. She
hopes someone will r me to give her kids. But I don’t owe anyone grandchildren. Having children is a personal choice, and I don’t think it’s fair to expect someone else to create an entire human being just because that’s what you want. I wish people would just think sometimes.
(UPDATE:I went downstairs and asked her why she had said she hoped I would be forced into having kids. She laughed and clarified, saying, “I didn’t say I hope you get raped,
I said I will find someone to force you so you will have kids,” and she said it in a joking, casual way like it’s a normal sentence.
I told her not to ever say that to me again. She replied, “Okay!” while still laughing, and repeated that I “need to have children” in a playful tone. I said I don’t owe her that, and she responded, “You do,” again in a joking voice. I told her no, I don’t, and then she just moved on and asked what I wanted for breakfast. When I said I was eating (I don’t usually eat much) she started singing a song she started singing recently saying “My daughter loves me hallelujah.”)
