Moos--too fucking sensitive...DuHs...idiot meatheads

Ok, so a friend of mine's sister had a kid about a year and a half ago who suffered a medical malpractice accident that led to nerve damage in her left arm. The kid goes to some sort of therapy to regain use of her arm.

Today on Facebook she posted a note that the kid had some progress in rehab for the nerve damage. I posted "Yay! She deserves a treat." I mean that since the kid put up with a painful medical procedure, she ought to get an ice cream cone or something.

Moo jumps my shit in an email, says "my child is not a dog." Erm...I didn't mean a fucking milkbone...

Then DuH sends me a note that "if said what he heard I said, I'd better watch my ass..."

Fuck's sake...I was happy the kid had a good day...now I risk losing my friend because his sister (Bratleigh's mom) jumped to conclusion and called her goon hubby into the picture...

I give up.

Aren't parents the most wonderful people on Earth??!! They're so wonderful and loving and giving that they waste no time sending you a not-too-veiled threat to maim you over a perceived slight. Gosh why don't we all want to become parents?!

Pigs. Especially him. If that's how he treats someone who posted a 5-word comment not to his liking on Face-Fucking-Book, imagine how he keeps Mrs Pig in-line if she ever says anything he doesn't like.

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"The death of creativity is a pram in the hallway"
- Cyril Connolly

Then DuH sends me a note that "if said what he heard I said, I'd better watch my ass..."

Seriously?
His little threat would be enough for me to aks him if he would like a restraining order for threats. Or maybe me to hire a few goons, to hand him his ass.

I wouldn't put up with that covert nonsense for another moment, if you care about any of the other posters. I would simply post something like this in the public area, "It was brought to my attention that a comment I made regarding Bratley deserving a "treat" for completing her therapy of last week was completely misunderstood. I would like to apologize if my comment was taken in any offensive way because that is not how it was intended. I meant with utmost sincerity that after having had to put up with that gruelling therapy that it would be nice to treat her to an icecream or a fun afternoon at a park, or something equally enjoyable. Perhaps some people think of the word "treat" in a way different than my own, but I always thought of it as something fun or pleasurable that was given as a well deserved prize upon the completion of something important or perhaps a difficult task.


Then I absolutely would not respond to them in private OR public again and would most likely not ever post at all. That is RIDICULOUS to be that sensitive over semantics, EVEN IF something nasty was said and it was especially immature for the big bad hubby to put in his two cents in this case.

kidlesskim, you are too nice in these circumstances... I would reward such a raw example of stupidity with a display of sarcasm and slashing polite insults.
this is an ill and uneducated moron who is unaware of the meaning of 'treat'.
What 'normal' person doesn't use 'treat' when talking to a child anyway?
I think Marzipan is dealing with hillbilly level trailer trash who didn't get out of 6th grade.
Matter of fact, if I get the link, I could go lob a bomb and point that out to dick for brains duh.

psycho alert...who would even think that? I like the hiring of thugs idea. You people are much, much nicer than I. Like Kramer said, "Oh, you don't want to get on my bad side" LOL

now I risk losing my friend because her mom jumped to conclusion and called her goon hubby into the picture...

This is your friend's sister with the brat, right? Why would you risk losing your friend? And if you did, because of something as moronic as this, good riddance, IMO. You don't need yet another breeder-pleaser in your life.

Cheese Louise Wrote:
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> now I risk losing my friend because her mom jumped
> to conclusion and called her goon hubby into the
> picture...
>
> This is your friend's sister with the brat, right?
> Why would you risk losing your friend? And if you
> did, because of something as moronic as this, good
> riddance, IMO. You don't need yet another
> breeder-pleaser in your life.

Yes, slight typo on my end. Friend is uncle of bratleigh, mom is the "slighted" party, goon hubby is an idiot.

spermandapaycheck Wrote:
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> psycho alert...who would even think that?

Seriously! WTF? And how lovely that those psychos are breeding more potential psychos.

No good deed goes unpunished.

What is wrong with these people? "Treat" is used all the time to apply to people. Even adults--I say it to my DH all the time, like after he fixed the furnace, &c. WHY are people so TOUCHY?!

The threat from the idiot hubs is not cool. I'd go with annie35's suggestion. My instinct would be to push back hard--I wouldn't like some dick trying to intimidate me. "Are you out of your mind? Are you that stupid that you don't understand I was trying to praise your daughter? What is WRONG with you?" But with some if not many if not most people, it's wasted breath.

I'd shun these folks but then I'm not the world's most sociable person. Anyways, I hope the OP feels better. Sheesh, it was just a friendly sentiment! Lord.

The idiots and asshole prortion of the population grows day by day. WTIF is with someone who gets upset at the word "treat". I'd tell Moo AND Duh that you don't take kindly to threats and are considering taking out a restraining order on idiot Duh.

Jeezus Kee-rist! People really are getting dumber by the day!

Even IF your comment had "sarcasm siren!" all over it, even IF you had instead said something like "Wow, what does he want, a biscuit?" -- what the hell right does he have to threaten you with physical violence?

I'd put something public up on the page pointing out that comment to all onlookers. Show him up for being the childish neanderthal he is. Embarrass him. Make his dick shrink to the size of a button mushroom, if it isn't already naturally.

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"The death of creativity is a pram in the hallway"
- Cyril Connolly

Amethyst Wrote:
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>
> I'd put something public up on the page pointing
> out that comment to all onlookers. Show him up
> for being the childish neanderthal he is.
> Embarrass him. Make his dick shrink to the size
> of a button mushroom, if it isn't already
> naturally.

This. In fact, I would post both of their stupid emails on the public forum. Along with a public announcement that if the threats of physical violence continue a call to the police will be made.

Fucking drop them. they cease to exist.

Get as far away from these people as you can. Have no further contact with them or any of their friends. They are fucking nuts.

Post the public disclaimer if you don't but don't engage them.

Wow, the parunts sound like a FAR WORSE offense than a mere misunderstood word!

Heck, they could even be a threat to the society themselves!

Did just that. Dropped them off my friend list. Kept my friend (Moo's Brother, friend for 20 yrs). Made it clear that his sister/nieces/nephews are a forbidden subject for me.

DuH's not worth the effort to file the TRO. One, I am well-armed (gotta love the 2nd Amendment) and Two, I am 7 months away from being a lawyer, I could file it myself, but the hassle/cost to serve him with process would be a waste of time. I got him to delete his inane comments, and I got a pseudo-apology from him.

Case Closed.

OOOOH. I bet you're SKEEEEEERED.

Shine up the ol' sidearm and tell him to bring it on. While you're at it, tell him to shut his fucking pie hole and enjoy the nice malpractice settlement I'm sure they got, or you'll file harrassment charges.

Don't grovel over this. Explain yourself ONCE and get on with life.

And tell the duh fuckwad if he messes with you, his kids' disability and worrying what people are saying about it will be the very least of his problems.

Fucking asshole parents. They think once they've spawned that they've got cart blanche authority to go around making terroristic threats to anyone who remotely disses their pweshus widdle snowfwake.

Better yet, you should bask in the warm glow of the thought that those dipshits are so defensive because they are probably stressed out to the max with their damaged loaf and really hatin' life.



Marzipan Wrote:
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..............Then DuH sends me a note that "if said what he
> heard I said, I'd better watch my ass..."

Never been friends with breeders. They are a waste. Scum.

LoveToLurk Wrote:
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> Amethyst Wrote:
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> >
> > I'd put something public up on the page
> pointing
> > out that comment to all onlookers. Show him up
> > for being the childish neanderthal he is.
> > Embarrass him. Make his dick shrink to the
> size
> > of a button mushroom, if it isn't already
> > naturally.
>
> This. In fact, I would post both of their stupid
> emails on the public forum. Along with a public
> announcement that if the threats of physical
> violence continue a call to the police will be
> made.

Thirded.

friend?? what friend??

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children
and I defy anyone to prove me wrong:

The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

If I want to hear the pitter-patter of little feet I'll put shoes on my pets.

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Um I am a parent and I think

Um, we don't give a polished shit what you think. Don't you have any idea where you are, you illiterate slob?

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Most people in general are idiots

Yeah, you're a fine judge of that, now aren't you? Thanks for digging up a four year old thread, idiot.

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Nobody here cares what you think. Why the fuck are you even here? This isn't a parenting forum.

Presumably the point of that pointless post on a thread from 2008 was to indicate that you think the CF envy you for your breeerdom, "Oh I see you envy me", because there sure as hell wasn't any point to that wall of text you wrote.

We don't. Fuck off.