post 457

I know exactly how you feel and where you ar coming from -- I am not married to my first husband though--second. We have been together for almost 9 years and out lasted everyone of our friends marriages.
They all had children within the first 5 years. Having kids must cause problems in a lot of marriages. I tell people my husband and I are happy with the way it is --of course they do not understand. Oh well--they will get over it. My mom had my sister when she was 43 she is now 12--I love her to death but I can only keep her for a day.
I was 21 when she was born. I tend to get sever headaches before the day is through--my husband gets all stressed out also when we keep our relatives children.