why do people object to equality, why are there pro male,pro female camps, why not a pro equality camp.. people who treat everyone the same, regardless.
i am anti 3rd wave feminists, the ones who want everything (this contains those feminists who want to have a baby, and a job and everyone rolling over for them and i against men who want everything too), but i am equalist, if a woman is the best person for the job, then she should get it, if a man is then he should.. not sexist. if theres funding for womens health, there should be an equal amount for mans health.. not sexist is it..
but when i say there are male jerks, and female jerks, people only see that i am calling women jerks.. i know and i am sure a lot of you know dumbness and jerkness is not exclusive to one sex.. anything and i mean anything that makes one sex look worse to the other is bad, anti male articles are bad, anti female articles are bad as well.. trying to explain that i want everyone to be treated the same, sometimes i get called sexist.. because i dare say that men and women are the same and should be treated the same.. a sort of reducing women to the level of men.. in their eyes, when i want men to be boosted to how women are treated.. they decide i am saying women should be less than they are.. not that men should be more..
i wish there wasnt as many abortions, i beleive prevention is a key, both male and female, equality, its a mans duty to prevent, but EQUALLY its a womans duty as well.. am i saying men dont need to use prevention.. no.. i am saying it has to be equally shared between the 2 people.. yes women have more choices for birth control.. men have 3.. is that fair.. no.. is that equal .. no.. should men have the same amount as women.. yes. thats only fair, thats only equal... but when i say men have a few resources and women a lot more, i get called a sexist, because the women think i am saying i dont have the responibility its all on the womans side.. when my fiancee says she wants the snip, she wants to be "fixed", she gets told get the man to do it, she is giving the responsibility for birth control to the man.. she WANTS it, she wants it first because it will make her feel 1000 times better.. i am not forcing her.. i am not persuading her.. its her choice her decision..
just like its my choice my decision if i get a vasectomy, equal rights, and equal responsibility. thats the key..
i am pro equality, men and women are esssentially the same, there are things men can do that women find hard, and vice versa. there are things women can do that men find very hard.. am i saying there is a difference in men and women, yes, but thats genetically led, but this is in specific cases, not general.
EVERYONE IS CREATED EQUAL. and should be treated the EQUAL.
do i see more anti male comments, yes but thats because it affects me directly, women may see anti female comments, because they affect them.. but shouldnt it be everyone treated the same, not anti male, or anti female. but PRO equality.
this has been rattling round my brain for awhile, and on a few other boards, they have basically told me to get lost because i promote equality, rather than anti male - anti female. they put their discriminations into play, and read it how i am evil.. i must be anti feminist because i am male and i dare criticise women, (forgetting i criticise men too).
i want equality for all.. same funding for health for men and women, same rights for men and women, same responsibilities for men and women.. same rights under the law for men and women, same everything for men and women.
does this make me sexist, no.. i dont think so, but others do think so. so who has the problem, me who wants people to be treated the same, or them.
thanks for letting me rant here.
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