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There isn't really enough information here for me to make a judgement. We're you all exclusive? We're plans from week to week? Was there ever any indication that this was an ongoing relationship.
Regardless of the answer to any of the above, there is no doubt in my mind he is total douche canoe to not give a phone call or send an email that it wasn't working out.
That said, I would find it odd if somebody I had ignored for months bothered to notice I was online and initiate contact. I can see contacting once, maybe twice, but I think the whole "I saw you online" is what made him think you were monitoring his online activities.
I still don't think you did anything like stalking but I do think it comes across as desperate to keep trying to initiate contact with somebody who clearly is ignoring you.
Move on, and consider it a bullet dodged. Also, in the future, I would make sure you are clear of what the expectations are. Until I had clearly agreed we were only dating each other I had no future expectations.
Don't get me wrong, he sounds really immature and like a jerk and a drama queen. However, in the future, I would stop trying to contact somebody who clearly has no interest in me. It hurts. It sucks, but who wants somebody like that anyway? You deserve better.
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