Was poking through the archives one day, bored, killing time, when I ran upon this one:
I Don't Need Feminism threadIt just blew my mind at some of the things they said they had, so didn't need feminism, not even realizing the things they said they had were won for them by feminists fighting for it, such as being equal to men/their male spouse, and having their say of who they are, not needing someone to back them up, and being taken seriously. Plenty stereotypical ones along the lines of "I don't want to be a feminist because I like make-up, dresses, and being pretty". Well, so do I, but that doesn't make me any less of a feminist. The point with appearance isn't "you can't dress up", it's "you're not required to dress up if you don't want to". All of the girls looked SO young. I think a big part of their thoughts is that all of the basic things that feminists fought for women to have, they see as being just universal rights that everyone has just always had, and they are just clueless.
Got to thinking about it, and came up with a long list of basic everyday things that feminism fought hard to establish for women. The first three on the list came from posts in the above thread. The rest occurred to me, and I really didn't have to think all that hard.
Can you add to my list?
Have you ever...
1. Voted
2. Owned property
3. Held credit in your name, or your own bank/financial account
4. Used birth control
5. Held a job
6. Spoke your mind with the valid expectation to be heard
7. Chose your manner of dress
8. Lived alone
9. Had legal recourse to rape
10. Had legal recourse to domestic violence
11. Been able to file for divorce
12. Had full input upon the manner of rearing your children, instead of "father knows best"
13. Managed any part of the household budget/finances
14. Been able to buy a dress/personal item without having to ask for permission
15. Been able to drive
16. Had legal equality against discrimination, such as workplace discrimination/harassment
"We need a man in that position"
17. Had say in having children or not
18. Had legal right to your children in a divorce
19. Worked in a "man's job", i.e. anything other than a nurse or teacher
20. Pursued higher education
21. Had legal protections in divorce, such as child support
22. Had the legal right to choose abortion
For the anti-choice, having the legal right to NOT choose abortion over a man forcing it on you
23. Had the right to remarry, while the husband that divorced you does so
24. Been able to join the military
25. Enter into a legal contract, other than marriage
26. Been able to own a business
27. Had the freedom to make your views known, such as activist, protesting, and campaigning
28. Made your own medical decisions
29. Had a sexual harassment claim taken seriously
30. Been able to have access to the computer and the freedom to make a list and post like this