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Re: Rant. I met a cool guy, but he's a chainsmoker obsessed with cigs! GRR! April 09, 2015 | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 8,042 |
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evilchildlessbitch
ETA- I would never, ever get in somebody's face about smoking. As long as they are doing in approved areas in public, it is my job to move. In their house, they make the rules. If they are puffing away and my eyes start swelling shut it is my job to leave. I would never expect somebody to quit because of me. The only place I want my wishes respected is my home and smoke free public places.
Re: Rant. I met a cool guy, but he's a chainsmoker obsessed with cigs! GRR! April 09, 2015 | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 5,716 |
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It's like there's this sense of entitlement, this "My cigs are part of me and anyone who might not like smoke, for any reason, can shove it" attitude lurking undernearth. Either that, or a total delusion where he thinks people thinks it's sexy?
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Re: Rant. I met a cool guy, but he's a chainsmoker obsessed with cigs! GRR! April 26, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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thundergirl85
. Also, if things DID get serious later, I don't want to someday have to lose him early due to cancer or whatnot. I realize this can happen to anyone, and would always be there to support a partner in case of life emergencies, but I feel it's different the issue is both preventable and foreseeable, and if I'm not committed yet but determining whether I would be.
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mumofsixbirds
Well, I did it. I basically quit smoking. I'm vaping, and will allow myself the odd fine cigar, but other than that, that's it. Husband has quit as well.
We decided to do this because we bought the house, and our mortgage payments will be more than what we're currently paying in rent.
I'm looking forward to the health benefits. Because of chronic bronchitis, I had to go on a puffer for a couple of weeks, which I'm still taking. It's helped tremendously.
I plan to wean myself off of the e-cig, and only smoke decent cigars on special occasions.
This has been a huge step for my husband and I. We are still going through the physical thing, because vaping isn't the same as smoking, but it's definitely getting better.
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Re: Rant. I met a cool guy, but he's a chainsmoker obsessed with cigs! GRR! August 23, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,788 |
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mumofsixbirds
Thanks, ECB! It wasn't easy at first, but now I use my e-cig and I'm perfectly happy with that. I would sooner put a noose around my neck than give up the odd cigar for special occasions, but really, for every day, the e-cig is more than enough for both me and my husband.
I'm no longer on the puffer and my chronic cough has cleared up, too. My house no longer reeks of smoke, and neither do we. It really is a freeing feeling.