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Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices

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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
May 20, 2021
Funny how these kids left in cars only ever occur in the hottest months of the year. I never EVER hear about anyone forgetting Junior in the backseat when it's 50 degrees in September or in the middle of a snowstorm. Somehow I don't think it's a coincidence that kids are only ever "forgotten" in cars during the time of year when the temperature outside can be fatal. Must be mommy brain is seasonal like allergies. bemused eye roll
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It can fucking happen to anyone. Stop fucking shaming humans for using devices or tricks to help them make sure they don't fucking hurt their kids. "I would never do that" good for you Erica, but you also don't plan on having kids, have had great luck with birth control, and are not a fucking saint for saying you'd never do something in a situation you've never been in.

I actually agree that your memory can go on autopilot and sleep deprivation can play tricks on you. However, in this day and age, after so many "awareness" programs regarding the topic, there is no excuse for leaving your brat in a hot car or any car. (Despite awareness campaigns, there is the general premise that as the parunt, YOU are responsible for the kid's life.)

Even though I don't have kids, I have used various tricks when transporting my pets, like putting something in the back with them, etc. I do not have a problem with parunts doing it---in fact, they absolutely should be doing the same.

What a shocker---I don't get this Moo's particular point, except she sounds extremely bitter and wants to make the point that a CF person cannot possibly know the sheer exhaustion of being a parunt. I also noticed that she wrote "and you had great luck with birth control," which tells me she's probably a typical Breeder who blames birth control failure for her kids when she really didn't use it correctly in the first place.

Regardless, No sympathy here. Do the job you signed up for.

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You’d think a mother would be absolutely horrified at someone who lets their baby fry to death in a hot car, but I guess that’s only an emotion we evil CFers can feel.

I don't get it either, unless she's already a negligent parunt in the first place. Reminds me of an argument I had with someone from the Hillbilly Horde (family of a guy I dated many years ago) who was bitching about HAVING TO GET A CAR SEAT FOR EACH OF HIS KIDS and how unfaaiiiiiir and expensive it was, and SHAME ON THOSE AWFUL police for actually enforcing the law. Because there really are idiots who say I DON'T NEED ANYONE OR THE GUBMINT TELLING ME HOW TO RAISE MY CHYLD*, when the parunts do not have enough sense to keep their CHYLD from becoming a fritter or a projectile in an accident.

And of course, there are a lot of room temperature IQs on Reddit.

*Of course the holier-than-thou attitude drops when it comes to money or handouts. They are out to grab all the money they can get and then some.
A business owner is about to have her business "cancelled" for making the mistake of being honest about moo employees. The comments are full of torches and pitchforks.

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My husband and I went to my FAVORITE coffee spot. It's a drive-thru, small business spot, but has the best coffee in town. I've been going to this coffee spot for three years. I told my husband they were hiring, but never had an opportunity to ask the owner for an application. My husband asked her when we pulled up to the window. "Are you hiring" to which she replied, "Yes." and he points at me. She immediately says, "I can't hire her because she has four kids, that's too many. Who will watch them?"

I said, "My husband will watch them, he has a very flexible work schedule." He works from home! She replied, "I'm sorry, but no. I can't have you calling out all the time because of your kids. I have an employee who has five kids and she is calling out all the time."

She gave me my coffee, apologized again, and that is the last time I will ever go to my favorite coffee shop again. For reference, she knows I have four kids because I would go there before I dropped them off at school, as the shop was down the street. The more I think about this, the more I get irritated. I wasn't given a chance because I have children. My work ethic is based off my children, and she discriminated against me because I have children. I'm ready to break, y'all. I'm a writer and I want to be petty and write our local paper about what happened. And then I think, I can't because that isn't me. So, instead, she gets none of my money, no more local support, and a big middle finger following her around for the rest of her life.


https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/nhk5td/job_discrimination_because_i_have_kids/
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
May 21, 2021
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My husband asked her when we pulled up to the window. "Are you hiring" to which she replied, "Yes." and he points at me. She immediately says, "I can't hire her because she has four kids, that's too many. Who will watch them?"

I said, "My husband will watch them, he has a very flexible work schedule." He works from home! She replied, "I'm sorry, but no. I can't have you calling out all the time because of your kids. I have an employee who has five kids and she is calling out all the time."

She gave me my coffee, apologized again, and that is the last time I will ever go to my favorite coffee shop again. For reference, she knows I have four kids because I would go there before I dropped them off at school, as the shop was down the street.

So the owner knows the woman has four kids because all four kids would accompany the woman on her coffee runs in the morning. What are the chances that the coffee shop owner noticed her and remembered her face because the kids were out of control?

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No doubt. Plus owner doesn't need another useless employee who is never at work. And the business owner is a woman!
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
May 21, 2021
Moo doesn't know shit about being a business owner and this one clearly knows how hard it is to properly run a business without dependable employees. Sounds like the boss has just had enough breeder shit and knows from experience what to expect from people with a lot of brats and she is looking out for the best interests of her business. This isn't discrimination, it's common sense. Why hire someone who you know from the get-go will be a shitty employee because they have large domestic responsibilities?

I'm sure the owner will be just heartbroken that Moo won't be patronizing the establishment. Until Moo needs her fix again. I have a feeling she's the kind of customer who threatens to never come back and shows up a week later like nothing happened.

Sorry not sorry, Moo. This owner knows Moo's work priorities will be far behind her kids and that it'll just be a xerox copy of the other problematic breeder employee who constantly calls off because kids. I don't give a fuck what anyone says, I don't think it's unfair to ask people what their reproductive and/or childcare plans are so they can gauge who will be a dependable employee and who will call off every single day to wipe Snotleigh's ass or retrieve him from the principal's office. Businesses are not like hobby groups where you can just show up and leave when you feel like it - they exist to make money and there is no sense hiring someone who will be a flake when someone much more professional could have the job instead.

Shouldn't have brought your sproggen to the cafe with you, Moo! If she left the dumplings ar home with Duh, maybe she could have gotten a job. Plus, I imagine it's FAR easier to avoid hiring someone because of their brats than firing them for the same reason.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
May 23, 2021
Moo complaining that her kid isn't talking. LOL enjoy that while it lasts, pumpkin! Because when the kid learns to talk (and especially learns how to say NO), she'll be praying to every deity she thinks could exist to make the kid shup up again.

According to comments from Moo, the kid makes noises instead of words like "piiiica piiiica peeeee!" Well this is simple - Moo does not have a child, she has a Pikachu! So just evolve it with a Thunderstone and it'll talk when it becomes a Raichu. tongue sticking out smiley < /nerd>

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/nj7jgy/20_month_old_not_talking/

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Who else has a child that was a late talker? My daughter fits none of the usual criteria for being a late talker, she wasn’t pre term or low birth weight, shows 0 signs of autism, has hit all of her other milestones early, she’s vibrant, healthy and understands almost everything we say and oh my does she love books! She just WONT TALK!!!!!! My middle child at this age was speaking in 9-10 word sentences! I don’t understand! Anyone else have a late talker and they went on to be fine, with no language issues? I’m starting to really worry... the doctor won’t do early intervention until two. Thanks!
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
May 23, 2021
Pretty sure a business owner wouldn't tell a moo that she can't hire her because she has kids. Discrimination laws protect breeders. Owner probably told her to apply online like every other business in the US, or moo started with a list of demands and owner said that doesn't work for her. More likely if moo applied, the owner saw it and decided not to interview or is on a fishing expedition where she will only interview people with a very specific criteria and moo doesn't meet that criteria.

I'm sure the owner will be very happy of moo keeps her word and never comes back to the cafe. It might help increase the owner's business. Done time in retail hell and I'm willing to bet that moo will be back in a week.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
May 23, 2021
15-year-old is faking awtism as a means of attention whoring, to the point of behaving like a spaz in public. I had to look up "stimming" because I'd never heard of it, and I guess it's something autistic people do to calm themselves down - repetitious behaviors like rocking, flapping, spinning, etc. An old friend of mine was autistic and would count repeatedly out loud because he said it brought him comfort when I asked what he was doing, so I guess I knew what the behavior was, but didn't know it had a name.

Anyway, this kid probably thinks pretending to be an awtard will put her on easy street. If people think she's autistic, maybe she thinks people will have far lower expectations of her, so she won't have to try as hard or she can get out of doing things at home or at school and blame it on awtism, etc. They probably feel like they can't punish the brat in public because she'll say she's autistic and people will probably rush to her rescue if they think her parents are being "mean" to her for her "condition."

Someone suggests making the kid work with mentally disabled people to teach her a lesson. Ummm, no? That's like studying a primitive tribe to learn their ways in order to better fit in with them. That's on the fucking job learning, DO NOT send her to be around people who are truly fucked up because she'll learn how to put up a more convincing front! I did like the one suggestion further down to treat her like she's being honest and subject her to everything awtism entails - reduced freedoms and privlieges, more therapy, lots of tests, lots of medications, especially if they decide to use any money the girl has to pay for it because she won't need an allowance anymore if she's too retarded to do normal teen stuff, right? Also, put her in the special education class. I'll bet her friends seeing her with the flappers practicing coloring inside the lines will do wonders to "cure" her of her spontaneous autism.

Apparently, it's become a thing on TikTok now to pretend to be an awtard. Because I guess eating Tide pods lost its luster?

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/nitys6/help_my_15_year_old_is_faking_autism_tic_disorder/

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Yeah so this has been a rough year and we all just gotta make it through. Including my kid, who, among other things, got straight As freshman year and started a new club at their school. And I’m just going to get out ahead of this and say we are on waiting lists for therapy. Several.

Anyhow a few weeks ago our kid came to us and said that they had been doing research on autism and “stimming” and tic disorder and they think they have it.

My kid does not have autism. I am a high school teacher - the kid absolutely doesn’t have autism and even if they DID, we’d be talking about removing “supports” at this point. We’d definitely at school be removing supports for a kid that got straight As in honors classes.

So, we took the kid to the pediatrician and she pretty much agrees with us that the kid is faking this for attention. As for what’s going on at the house? Big sis is graduating and is getting a LOT of very deserved positive attention. Big sis has had some behavioral issues, so the break from routine is that the 15 year old is used to big sis getting boundaries and punishment. Now big sis is 18 and behaving herself quite well, so she’s getting to borrow the car! Presents are showing up at the house! Prom! Yay!

In the mean time, WTF do I do? We’re ignoring the probably faked “stimming” behaviors on the advice of the pediatrician. BUT the kid is doing this in public. Which is, on some level, super offensive. I think my kid is maybe a bit too old to pretend to be disabled for attention. How long do I let this go on? Y’all got anything for me?
How fucking dumb do you have to be to understand how discipline works? They won't act out at school if they know there are consequences at home. If parents were capable of consequences, teachers wouldn't be punching bags and internet boards wouldn't be overflowing with moo whine.

They get so defensive when called out on their spineless parenting.

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Kids do not need to get their ass beat more. The obsession I see some people have over how “kids just aren’t the same these days, it was better when they got their ass beat blah blah blah” is so fucking gross and disturbing. Obviously a kid is going to behave around you if they’re fucking terrified of you. That doesn’t mean they won’t act out at school and start using violence as a coping mechanism. Like I’m so sorry you’re not allowed to beat your kid anymore because it’s against the law/socially unacceptable. Kids are hard af and can make us so angry but we shouldn’t be encouraging this whole “oh the ass beating generation was better” culture. It’s so toxic and it pisses me off so much. It’s not funny.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/nnwv1o/im_so_fucking_sick_of_seeing_posts_about_how_kids/



Here's a post wondering how some women manage to not look like shit after spawning and most of the responses claim these women are farming out their duties. One response says she had to do chores as a child, but clearly does not approve of the horrific enslavement of children actually having to participate in household duties.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/nnyjng/how_do_the_yummy_mummys_do_it/
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 02, 2021
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Kids do not need to get their ass beat more. The obsession I see some people have over how “kids just aren’t the same these days, it was better when they got their ass beat blah blah blah” is so fucking gross and disturbing. Obviously a kid is going to behave around you if they’re fucking terrified of you. That doesn’t mean they won’t act out at school and start using violence as a coping mechanism. Like I’m so sorry you’re not allowed to beat your kid anymore because it’s against the law/socially unacceptable. Kids are hard af and can make us so angry but we shouldn’t be encouraging this whole “oh the ass beating generation was better” culture. It’s so toxic and it pisses me off so much. It’s not funny.

My mother spanked us when we were naughty. I recall getting spanked a grand total of two times, and it was more shocking than painful. After the second time, I knew my mother was serious when she told me to stop doing something, and I would stop doing it! I also didn't act out at school, because I knew there were consequences at home. Knowing there are consequences to bad behavior is a heck of a lot different than being "fucking terrified." As a five year-old I was able to figure out that following directions = no spankings. Not sure why these women find it so difficult to walk that line with their own kids.

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Here's a post wondering how some women manage to not look like shit after spawning and most of the responses claim these women are farming out their duties. One response says she had to do chores as a child, but clearly does not approve of the horrific enslavement of children actually having to participate in household duties.

My mother was able to go to work and look put together on a daily basis, mostly because she had established those boundaries with us kids. We knew to leave her alone when she was getting dressed, and we knew not to tear the house apart while she was focusing on her personal care rather than focusing on us. I guess it was because of all those toxic beatings we endured. eye rolling smiley

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Yes, apparently all children from past generations suffered permanent damage from receiving discipline and their mothers having their own identities.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 02, 2021
Breeders can't seem to differentiate between a swat on the ass and beating a child within an inch of their lives, which makes me wonder what reality they live in. A spanking isn't meant to actually injure the kid - it's meant to be a fast, effective way to get their attention because most kids won't listen when they're told to stop doing something. Sometimes you need to get your point across in a hurry and a slap on the ass does the trick. The little shit will cry about it, not because it hurt, but just because they don't like how it felt. Which is the correct response to a spanking! Kids also cry about anything they don't like, like how their shoes feel on a given day or how they no longer have their graham cracker because they already ate it.

Spanking is not violence, it's discipline. No child will develop PTSD from a spanking. It stops bad behavior and every single kid I've ever seen get spanked had stopped crying and doing the offending behavior a few minutes later. Not using effective discipline will do far more damage to a child mentally than smacking them now and then.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 06, 2021
She knew this was a piece of shit. So she breeds with it. Justno categories fit here as well

MIL convinced DH to take me to court for custody of my unborn baby

Last time I posted I was telling you about how my MIL refused to apologize to me but said she needed to consult with people before apologizing. She ended up telling DH that if her not apologizing meant she couldn’t have anything to do with her grand daughter when she’s born, she was fine with that. Cool, I let it go. DH agreed to leave it at that.

Fast forward to last week Tuesday. There are some things I didn’t mention about DH. He has a history of porn addiction and it really took a toll on our relationship at one point. I’m talking porn induced ED, behavioral changes, lack of affection, locking himself in the bathroom to jerk off and watch porn for HOURS, watching lolicon porn (hentai that portrays little girls as young as 6 or 4 engaging in sexual activity), shota (hentai of little boys engaging in sexual acts), scat, all types of fucked up porn, the whole nine. He’s said he would stop over and over again and I always catch him watching things weeks later. This time I caught him following onlyfans models pages on FB, and watching twerking videos of half naked women with thongs on. It caused an argument and I immediately started crying. “Why aren’t I good enough? What’s wrong with me that you constantly need to look at other women? You said you’d stop! This is still porn.”

The gaslighting began.

“I feel like you take my dick with you everywhere you go” “You don’t let me do anything!” “You’re just jealous!” “You make me feel like shit, I did nothing wrong, nobody else’s wife does this!”

To make matters worse, he walked out on me in the middle of me crying and begging him to stay and talk to me and tell me what the problem was. Here I am getting fat and not feeling my best due to pregnancy, and he’s looking at all these flat stomach women with big asses. I’m not jealous, I just want my husband to look at me like I’m hot and like I’m enough at 25 weeks pregnant. Anyway, he stonewalls me and leaves. I opened up to a family member and said I didn’t want him in the delivery room when I gave birth and after hearing everything, this family member let him have it. I found out after it was done, to which I didn’t condone. I ended up leaving and I’m staying at my moms.

I find out today that he opened up to his mother who hates me and told her all of this (I’m guessing leaving out the kind of porn he was watching and minimizing the severity of his addiction), her conclusion was he needed to take me to court for custody because he’ll have his own place and a car, and therefore he’ll be the more suitable parent. I’m heartbroken that this man I’ve been with for 9 years would come to the conclusion that he needs to take me to court instead of being a man and owning up to his shit. He’s rather run to mommy. I can’t stop crying guys, it hurts so bad. I’ve had thoughts of hurting myself or even terminating my pregnancy some how, or punching my stomach so I can lose this pregnancy and I KNOW that’s not what I want. I just feel so defeated and fucked up and resenting this pregnancy.. It’s sad he’s gotten me in this mental space. I start therapy on the 22nd.

The fact that I’m only 24 and chose him to be the father of my child and this is the life I’m looking at moving forward..I’m staying with my mom again and not working because I’m a full time student but am financially doing great and can afford my daughter with no problem. What should my next steps be?

I live in NY, what are the chances of him taking her from me when she’s here?

Edit- To everyone telling me to find proof of his hentai lolicon use, apparently he hasn’t watched it since June of last year. He’s had a screentime lock on his phone that only I have the password to (he asked for this for accountability), and is unable to watch porn. My issue now is that he’s always trying to find ways around it. First it was trying to watch squirting videos on Twitter and after we deleted Twitter, now he found twerking videos on FB and is following strippers on FB too. I’m exhausted from babysitting this man and this is what led to the argument, which resulted in him consulting his mother about it. The only thing I have for proof is a screenshot of the lolicon comic I found last year. Just one screenshot.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.

The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 06, 2021
Of course she bred with him. They always do. And since she's known him for nine years, I have a feeling this behavior was not unusual prior to getting knocked up.

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watching lolicon porn (hentai that portrays little girls as young as 6 or 4 engaging in sexual activity), shota (hentai of little boys engaging in sexual acts), scat, all types of fucked up porn, the whole nine.

If she had any balls whatsoever, she would report this POS to the authorities. She said she only has one screen shot but trust me, a good criminologist could find all on the computer. (Although I'm not sure if cartoon porn counts as criminal porn because it's not using real children to engage in the acts. However, he may be consuming porn with real kids and not telling her.)

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I’m staying with my mom again and not working because I’m a full time student but am financially doing great and can afford my daughter with no problem.

Don't you wonder what this entails? I suspect it's sucking off the taxpayer. You're welcome, Bitch.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 06, 2021
they always 'i can afford my dottie' but, daddy has rights as well, daddy is a mommy kiss ass for his own demented moo. so the smug shit eating grin will be wiped off this cows face as she faces years of crap from the turd she bred with.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.

The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 06, 2021
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Of course she bred with him. They always do. And since she's known him for nine years, I have a feeling this behavior was not unusual prior to getting knocked up.

I do have to say though...in this case, she's 24 and has been with this guy for 9 years which means she was 15...and how old was he, I wonder? I'm guessing not a teenager. So although I generally think women shouldn't make stupid choices about who they breed with and then cry about it later, she may well have been groomed into this situation.
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Funny how these kids left in cars only ever occur in the hottest months of the year. I never EVER hear about anyone forgetting Junior in the backseat when it's 50 degrees in September or in the middle of a snowstorm.

Yeah, I've noticed that, too. You never hear about kids being left to freeze to death. Gee, I wonder why that is?

And for the woman getting ready to have a baby with a pedo, I would think that one screenshot of child porn would be enough to convince most people that he's trash....
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 07, 2021
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I do have to say though...in this case, she's 24 and has been with this guy for 9 years which means she was 15...and how old was he, I wonder? I'm guessing not a teenager. So although I generally think women shouldn't make stupid choices about who they breed with and then cry about it later, she may well have been groomed into this situation.

I was thinking that too. I'm guessing her husband is noticeably older than her and she probably had absent or neglectful parents who didn't notice or care that she was dating an older man. Even if he is her age, it's obvious porn is his one true love and he's also a momma's boy, as evidenced by him running to mommy the way he did. Even if he is looking at cartoon kiddy porn, I don't think that's illegal because it doesn't involve real-live victims. Not my cuppa tea, but between looking at the real thing and looking at drawings, I'd rather hear about someone looking at the drawings.

She asks why she's not good enough - well, probably because she's knocked up! Most women look awful when they're pregnant for a number of reasons. Maybe Moo was sexy and had a good figure before, but now that she's in pig, she probably looks like a manatee. That doesn't excuse his behavior, but why the fuck did she breed with someone with such huge problems? Surely this porn addiction didn't just crop up overnight.

Let Duh fight for custody! Even if he wasn't a total piece of shit, fathers have a snowball's chance in hell of getting custody of their own kids, and all Moo has to do is bring up the porn addiction and/or the viewing of minor anime porn and he'll never see the kid. I have a feeling it's his mommy that Moo needs to worry about more than him because she sounds like the kind of person who will be vindictive at all costs and make her life miserable for dumping her bouncing baby boy.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 08, 2021
Moo bleating about how nothing is hers and only hers - rather, all her stuff is communal property as brats, pets and spouses help themselves to everything that isn't theirs. I wouldn't be able to stand this shit, but to be fair, it sounds like a serious lack of boundary enforcement. If there are no consequences for everyone taking Moo's shit, then they have no reason to knock it off.

And why do so many brats insist on eating off their parents' plates? That's a common occurrence I see on that sub. Is this normal? I sure as fuck don't remember having to eat off my parents' plates. Why can't they tell their kids "no" when booger-encrusted fingers start reaching for food when they already have their own? Slapping grabby hands away doesn't take much effort.

Perhaps she should start taking everyone else's shit if they're going to help themselves to her stuff and she refuses to enforce boundaries with anyone in the house. I can't imagine having to stash snacks in tampon boxes and weird random spots in my own house just to be able to have them before someone else does. That's college roommate bullshit.

https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/nujzqe/i_just_want_something_for_only_me/

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As a mom I’ve learned that nothing is really “mine”, everything that is mine is ACTUALLY communal property.

for example: Practically all of MY food has to be shared w 10 month old. I swear the food doesn’t taste good to her unless I have it seasoned w my saliva first.

I got a new blanket for Christmas (the one thing I specifically requested), it now lives in 3yos room because he LOVES it.

I got a cricut to craft with in my spare time because I needed a hobby, I cleaned out a corner of the room and made myself a craft corner...it is now taken over by kids toys, laundry piles and my SOs hobby stuff to the point where I don’t even WANT to craft because it would be a chore to even start clearing the area.

New crocs? Oh let’s let the puppy run around unsupervised and chew on moms new shoe while she is in the shower!

If I buy 2 boxes of the same candy and only eat a little of mine and save the rest for later my SO will eat all of his then snatch mine up and eat it himself the second he sees it.

Is it annoying? Oh yes, but I’m a firm believer in picking your battles so I generally just let shit like that go, but this morning it went too damn far.

There were 2 cokes in the fridge last night, SO grabbed one and I SPECIFICALLY said I’m gonna have one in the morning (it’s like coffee for me, he knows this). Today I sleep in an extra hour, get up for my coke and IT’S NOT THERE.

I ask about it and SO says “oh it sounded good with my breakfast so I drank it, just have something else to drink”.

Yeah it’s not THAT big of a deal it’s a fucking soda who cares? But it just BROKE me. I’m mad, and hurt, and tired of dealing with the selfishness.

I just want SOMETHING for myself.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 08, 2021
For me it isn't even so much about giving the kids whatever they want as their complete inability to pick men who (a) give the slightest shit about them, and (b) are competent adults.

It is basic respect that when your partner asks you not to eat something, you either don't eat it or at least replace it immediately. It is basic adulting that, given sufficient funds for groceries, you put something on the shopping list before it runs out, so that you don't wind up squabbling over it with your partner.

If these are the men they are choosing, what kind of men are they rejecting?
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 09, 2021
I'm guessing it could be any number of factors as far as these women's piss-poor choices in partners. No self esteem, fucked up childhoods that make them unable to notice shitty behavior (because shitty was normal for them growing up), being in a hurry to have babbies and marrying the first guy that knocks them up or conversely, marrying someone because they knocked them up, general desperation for companionship/sex, settling, the misguided belief that marriage and babies will instantly turn a momma's boy into a mature adult, having a "rescuer" mentality where they think they can repair clearly damaged people, or enough self-awareness to know they have nothing to offer anyone romantically and so they marry whoever gives them a second glance.

I'd wager a lot of the asshats these women marry are momma's boys, either only children or golden children among their siblings. These men aren't looking for a wife with whom they will stand on equal ground in every respect - they're looking for a mommy they can fuck. These losers want someone who will cook their meals, wash their underpants, tell them what good boys they are, expect them to do precisely nothing and praise them for it... but then also screw/jerk/blow them.

These guys are all cut from the same cloth, and then when Duh doesn't magically morph into a responsible adult when a loaf gets thrown into the mix, Moo huffs and puffs about it when she knew full well he was a lazy fuckstack pre-conception. Babies do NOT make men more mature - if anything, it makes them withdraw further into their own little worlds of video games, porn and hour-long shits to get away from their wives and brats.
I've noticed that the majority of the posters sound as immature as the men. They sound like little girls playing house rather than responsible adults, they way they put themselves in these hopeless or thankless positions. Then they whine about how no one respects them and how they do everything for everyone on earth but nobody cares. A significant number of them bred before even reaching 20 and then wonder why their equally young boyfriend has no interest in piggos or raising brats.

I've also noticed that in many of the posts in general, they are sponging off one of them's parents. Then they complain ad nauseum about the hosts.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 09, 2021
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I've noticed that the majority of the posters sound as immature as the men. They sound like little girls playing house rather than responsible adults, the way they put themselves in these hopeless or thankless positions. Then they whine about how no one respects them and how they do everything for everyone on earth but nobody cares. A significant number of them bred before even reaching 20 and then wonder why their equally young boyfriend has no interest in piggos or raising brats.

Word. Unfortunately, I think a lot of these young Moos read society's tea leaves and they get the pronatalist message: Parunting makes you grown up; it's the most important thing a woman can do, etc. (Plus they probably don't have any good role models in their lives, someone who will push them and ask them what they want to do with their lives, independent of men and children.) So they get knocked up by the first guy who pays them any attention so they can reap the benefits of being regarded as an adult without actually having to do any work. Lying back and taking some dick snot doesn't require any special effort.

On the other hand, really growing up is hard. Think of all the things a person has to figure out from age 15 to 25: who you are, what you want to do to support yourself (because being self sufficient is really what makes an adult), and how to find your way in the world.

Getting knocked up and burying yourself in a "man" or a child is still a socially-acceptable way to opt out. These twats think they are short-circuiting the process, only to fail miserably when they are not living in Shangri-La.
Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
June 10, 2021
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Parunting makes you grown up; it's the most important thing a woman can do, etc.

Conversely, I have heard more than one person (including people I know) say they want to have kids so they can relive their childhoods, so I think some people might also see reproducing as an "acceptable" way to remain in a juvenile state. Like they can eat Cap'N Crunch, watch cartoons, play with Play-Doh, play video games, use coloring books and try to introduce their kids to the stuff they themselves grew up with without judgment. Because as we all know, an unchilded adult that likes sugary cereal and cartoons isn't a Real AdultTM, but if they do those very same things with a kid around, then it's just nostalgia. I imagine the wake-up call they get when raising brats means they don't have time to relive their childhoods sucks and then the regret kicks in.

I can't imagine being so insecure about stuff I enjoy that I'd feel compelled to create a whole new human being to justify that enjoyment. I'm 34 and I never felt the urge to reproduce to have an excuse to eat Reese's Puffs, watch cartoons, play video games and own stuffed animals.
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