Feh Wrote:
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> When SO goes on about how fun it would be to have
> a nephew, I just tell him that his nieces would be
> heartbroken to hear that. It's not like all girls
> are pink swaddled, brain dead, barbie zombies from
> birth...just like boys, girls can be encouraged in
> a variety of directions and interests and alot of
> them can be quite fun. Again, it's up to the
> ADULTS to actually interact and guide the
> children, not the other way around.
Right Feh!
I was a girl who wanted desperately to be an astronomer as early as 9, and loved science & inventing things & art. I was also the oldest of 4 kids (g,g,b,b) so felt alot of pressure to be the traditional Marcia Brady type.
Everyone-especially my family- pretty much humored me about my interests & acted like it was cute. They'd give me the half-assed: "you can be anything you want" but what they truly wanted was for me to buckle down & concentrate on being a girl & do normal giggly girl things since apparently that is what would make THEM happy.