mercurior Wrote:
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> i knew one lad who only went with 50 plus women,
> he was 20 at the time.. he liked going with them..
> sometimes its more than sexual experience..
> theres a stability with many older women, and they
> are unlikely to want to moo.. and older women
> sometimes like younger men, men they can teach and
> show and they have the energy of the young,
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To each his/her own but I would not want to be viewed as a sexual "teacher" for a young man. I prefer
energy with someon my own age or older. Most 20 year old guys like older women since many of these ladies accept anything from them in exchange for attention. From what I have seen, these women do accept the "crumbs" of affection from the young guys who clearly run off after leading the ladies to believe there are some feelings. I worked with a couple of older women who married law school or med students who only wanted a place to live during their studies. After graduation and when the jobs came, these men who claimed to enjoy an "older women" wanted young paralegals or nurses.
Again, I understand that each person has a right to follow his/her desire as long as all people are consenting (not all sexual unions are meant to be "forever") -- but it always seem that the women are used as nothing more than sexual "objects" or for material gain for horny young men. As a female who is getting older, I have more respect for myself. Mercurior, as long as the fiftysomethinger ladies that your friend "dated" were aware of the motives, that is one thing. Too often, the young guys play with these older women's emotions only to take off when they get the eye for the younger ladies.