A good friend of mine used to be an intelligent and interesting female, but she made no mystery about kids being her life goal. She found a spineless duh working for an unstable industry and on the verge of loosing his job for years. Once, we went out for her 30th birthday. My former bf and I were the only cf (he wanted to breed, not me). She had invited other young moos and all they kept talking about was the birth and all related kiddie stuff. I went to sit with the men to talk about computers and cars. When it was my turn to turn 30, she asked what I had planned. I told her frankly that I didn't want to invite her since all she could talk about were her kids (she was 2 years older than me and had 2 kids by the time I reached 30). Needless to say we don't speak to each other anymore.
My current best friend lives in the UK (I'm in Canada) and is married with a man 10 years older. They just bought a house and are trying for the golden sprog. It has not worked so far and I keep my fingers crossed that it doesn't. I rarely see her and only seldom get some news by email, so imagine what it would be with a sprog.
My husband used to have a cool friend here, but since his sproglina was born this year, all we get is silence.
