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Entitled Breeder in the Office October 02, 2010 |
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Re: Entitled Breeder in the Office October 02, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 8,402 |
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skysurfer
I've been a lurker and I thought I'd finally post and vent my frustrations. I'm 27 years old and CF. I've been through the bingos, and they usually for the most part do not bother me. In the office we have a very sweet girl, let's call her D. D is 28 years old, and popped out baby number 4 with a cheating drug addicted husband who she is divorcing. D is also on welfare, completely unreliable in the office, and plays the sweet country girl routine to get people to feel sorry for her even though her work ethic is a joke. She was on welfare 3 babies ago, but don't get me started on that. While CF me has worked for years long hours to do her work and mine for the 2304028429 times she's been late, called in, or had to leave early.
Apparently the conversation regarding income and raises came up in the ladies room, and she was complaining that she hasn't gotten a raise in years, and she deserves one because people like me don't need raises since we don't have kids to feed.
Okay, my rage was building up, but I'm at work and if I say the wrong thing; I'm the bad guy who loses her job.
I kindly explained to her that raises generally are handed out based on skills, merits, and RELIABILITY, not how many kids you can pop up. She was pissed.. like how dare I? Skills and reliability? Whats that?!?!
This breeder has been coddled and her ass kissed for YEARS. Every time she's pregnant which all her kids are back to back to back.. the office makes donations and I'm expected to give her money. One thing, I don't have money; I'm single living on my own with bills to pay and a dog. I'm tired of the give and give and give to D attitude this office has. All I can say is BED, MADE, LIE.
THEN on top of it, she has no vacation time or sick leave because she used it all up.. so the company in all it's kindness gives her 6 WEEKS of FREE PAID VACATION time for her maternity leave. FREE FUCKING MONEY she did not earn or deserve, but because her husband is in and out of jail, we should all feel sorry for her.
Am I so cold to sit there and think maybe she shouldn't have chose to reproduce with a loser and learn what contraception is or for fucks sake, keep her damn legs closed for a bit.
She has my entire office wrapped around her finger and I feel like I am taking crazy pills!!! She comes in late 3-4 times a week and it's okay.. she's got those babies! If I am late even ONCE.. it's the "Oh you were partying last night huh?" Cuz since I'm 27 and CF, all I do is party. *growls*
Again, all I want to say is. BED MADE LIE.
I use to be sympathetic, but after so many years of this; I've lost about all of it.
Re: Entitled Breeder in the Office October 02, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,308 |
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zatoth
technically, the expectation of an employee to give money or items to another employee in the workplace (birthdays, baby showers, etc) can actually be solicitation in the workplace and thus actually against company policy and even some workplace regulations. plus, the flagrant favoritism to her and the "oh, you were partying last night" attitude is harassment and definately against the law. there's another law, too, that you can file complaints against your bosses and they can't do shit-"whistleblower act". you are being discriminated against, mate!
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technically, the expectation of an employee to give money or items to another employee in the workplace (birthdays, baby showers, etc) can actually be solicitation in the workplace and thus actually against company policy and even some workplace regulations. plus, the flagrant favoritism to her and the "oh, you were partying last night" attitude is harassment and definately against the law. there's another law, too, that you can file complaints against your bosses and they can't do shit-"whistleblower act". you are being discriminated against, mate!
I've started to take on the "no gifts" to co-workers policy and while I met resistance at first, I've also had a few people come up to me and say, "It's about time... I'm thinking about doing the same." If you go out and earn an advanced degree or accomplish something great, I'd love to buy you a drink outside of work. I'd be honored. But as far as birthdays, baaaaaybee showers, weddings... blah. I just don't consider that to be a worthy accomplishment and therefore I don't care.
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The gift thing has gotten way out of hand at my workplace, as well. I finally started just saying "No"! If a coworker is also a friend, then it's my choice to give him/her a gift. I'm through being bullied into donating money for someone just because we happen to work in the same building. Another popular thing in workplaces now is being bullied into giving up your sick days/vacation time for someone else. Thank God we're union, and can't be coerced into this!
Re: Entitled Breeder in the Office October 03, 2010 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |
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The gift thing has gotten way out of hand at my workplace, as well. I finally started just saying "No"! If a coworker is also a friend, then it's my choice to give him/her a gift. I'm through being bullied into donating money for someone just because we happen to work in the same building. Another popular thing in workplaces now is being bullied into giving up your sick days/vacation time for someone else. Thank God we're union, and can't be coerced into this!
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Let that same person be SINGLE too AND a male, then you get a mixed bag of excuses why no one is helping that range from completely ignoring that he even exists to the assumption that since he has no "famblee obligations", that he must just have bookoodles of money stashed away. A single childfree male is probably THE most discriminated against person in the workplace anyway these days,regardless of what the "NOW" whiners have to say about it. At least that has been my experience.
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Re: Entitled Breeder in the Office October 03, 2010 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 5,443 |
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skysurfer
and the ongoing joke I get is "something's in the water which means you're next." Yeah, no. I'm single, and am too responsible to drink that kool-aid.
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Let that same person be SINGLE too AND a male, then you get a mixed bag of excuses why no one is helping that range from completely ignoring that he even exists to the assumption that since he has no "famblee obligations", that he must just have bookoodles of money stashed away. A single childfree male is probably THE most discriminated against person in the workplace anyway these days,regardless of what the "NOW" whiners have to say about it. At least that has been my experience.
At one job I was at, I had a male co-worker who got sick and was out for 2 full weeks, which wasn't like him as he was very responsible. He was from out of town and didn't really mention any friends. We found out he'd be out the 2 weeks after the first few days. I asked if anyone had checked with him to see if he needed anyone to get groceries for him, check on him, pick up prescriptions. No one had. I didn't know him well enough to call him at home, but I did ask my supervisor to check with him and see if he needed anything. Once I suggested it, they thought it was a good idea. Turns out he didn't need us, but I thought we should at least offer.
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Let's take a logical look at this thing here for minute. Imagine that somebody like StudioFiftyFour, who has no wife and kyds, "donates" his vacation and sick days to a breeder-sow with a baybee perpetually in the NICU ward, then has an accident and is unable to work for 3 weeks. Since he is Unmarried and Unchilded, what are the odds that the collection hat would be passed for him? He won't qualify for public assistance because he has no kyds, so how would he eat?
THEY DO NOT GIVE A SHIT about the UNchilded!!!! If a CF is married and has to be out of work then they ignore helping them out using the flimsy excuse that they have a spouse, so they'll be "okay". Let that same person be SINGLE too AND a male, then you get a mixed bag of excuses why no one is helping that range from completely ignoring that he even exists to the assumption that since he has no "famblee obligations", that he must just have bookoodles of money stashed away. A single childfree male is probably THE most discriminated against person in the workplace anyway these days,regardless of what the "NOW" whiners have to say about it. At least that has been my experience.
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Let's take a logical look at this thing here for minute. Imagine that somebody like StudioFiftyFour, who has no wife and kyds, "donates" his vacation and sick days to a breeder-sow with a baybee perpetually in the NICU ward, then has an accident and is unable to work for 3 weeks. Since he is Unmarried and Unchilded, what are the odds that the collection hat would be passed for him? He won't qualify for public assistance because he has no kyds, so how would he eat?
THEY DO NOT GIVE A SHIT about the UNchilded!!!! If a CF is married and has to be out of work then they ignore helping them out using the flimsy excuse that they have a spouse, so they'll be "okay". Let that same person be SINGLE too AND a male, then you get a mixed bag of excuses why no one is helping that range from completely ignoring that he even exists to the assumption that since he has no "famblee obligations", that he must just have bookoodles of money stashed away. A single childfree male is probably THE most discriminated against person in the workplace anyway these days,regardless of what the "NOW" whiners have to say about it. At least that has been my experience.
I'm having this vision of me being comatose in the hospital and vaguely hearing my co-workers speak as they look down upon me in my bed... "It's too bad the boss is going to let him go... but THANK GOD he doesn't have a wife and kids to worry about... these hospital bills are going to be astronomical. At least no kiiiiiids are involved!"
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Let's take a logical look at this thing here for minute. Imagine that somebody like StudioFiftyFour, who has no wife and kyds, "donates" his vacation and sick days to a breeder-sow with a baybee perpetually in the NICU ward, then has an accident and is unable to work for 3 weeks. Since he is Unmarried and Unchilded, what are the odds that the collection hat would be passed for him? He won't qualify for public assistance because he has no kyds, so how would he eat?
THEY DO NOT GIVE A SHIT about the UNchilded!!!! If a CF is married and has to be out of work then they ignore helping them out using the flimsy excuse that they have a spouse, so they'll be "okay". Let that same person be SINGLE too AND a male, then you get a mixed bag of excuses why no one is helping that range from completely ignoring that he even exists to the assumption that since he has no "famblee obligations", that he must just have bookoodles of money stashed away. A single childfree male is probably THE most discriminated against person in the workplace anyway these days,regardless of what the "NOW" whiners have to say about it. At least that has been my experience.
I'm having this vision of me being comatose in the hospital and vaguely hearing my co-workers speak as they look down upon me in my bed... "It's too bad the boss is going to let him go... but THANK GOD he doesn't have a wife and kids to worry about... these hospital bills are going to be astronomical. At least no kiiiiiids are involved!"
If only you hadn't donated your company benefits including vacation days, sick leave, personal leave, your raise, retirement fund, and your health and life insurance to the breeder-sow, then you might have been okay. Actually, had you done all of that and were left in this position, they would ALL be saying, "He sure was irresponsible not to have planned for something like this!" Followed up of course with, "Thank GOD he didn't have any kiiiiids"
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kidlesskim
Let's take a logical look at this thing here for minute. Imagine that somebody like StudioFiftyFour, who has no wife and kyds, "donates" his vacation and sick days to a breeder-sow with a baybee perpetually in the NICU ward, then has an accident and is unable to work for 3 weeks. Since he is Unmarried and Unchilded, what are the odds that the collection hat would be passed for him? He won't qualify for public assistance because he has no kyds, so how would he eat?
THEY DO NOT GIVE A SHIT about the UNchilded!!!! If a CF is married and has to be out of work then they ignore helping them out using the flimsy excuse that they have a spouse, so they'll be "okay". Let that same person be SINGLE too AND a male, then you get a mixed bag of excuses why no one is helping that range from completely ignoring that he even exists to the assumption that since he has no "famblee obligations", that he must just have bookoodles of money stashed away. A single childfree male is probably THE most discriminated against person in the workplace anyway these days,regardless of what the "NOW" whiners have to say about it. At least that has been my experience.
I'm having this vision of me being comatose in the hospital and vaguely hearing my co-workers speak as they look down upon me in my bed... "It's too bad the boss is going to let him go... but THANK GOD he doesn't have a wife and kids to worry about... these hospital bills are going to be astronomical. At least no kiiiiiids are involved!"
If only you hadn't donated your company benefits including vacation days, sick leave, personal leave, your raise, retirement fund, and your health and life insurance to the breeder-sow, then you might have been okay. Actually, had you done all of that and were left in this position, they would ALL be saying, "He sure was irresponsible not to have planned for something like this!" Followed up of course with, "Thank GOD he didn't have any kiiiiids"
Donating sick leave time could be a very noble thing... or it could be a personal disaster should any catastrophic accident or illness affect you at some point.
My philosophy? Try to save and bank as many days as possible, carry disability insurance, and pray for the best.
Re: Entitled Breeder in the Office October 05, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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How the hell does she get welfare AND work? Is she a part of one of those welfare-to-work programs, or is she just scamming somehow so she can have money from both? I may be a bit ignorant to parts of the welfare system, so I have no idea if a person can have a job and nurse off the taxpayer tit too.
But yeah, D sounds like a classic breeder...she deserves an eleventy billion dollar raise and paid vacation and everyone's sympathy because of her shitty life choices. Hey, can I have a raise and six weeks paid vacation because I went to an unaccredited college and got a worthless degree? Can I have some money because I've been eating less than healthy and gained weight? Where's my money for my lousy choices?
I agree that filing complaints would be ideal, since if you tell the Moo-tard to her face what you think of her, she'll go boo-hooing to the boss (while greatly exaggerating what was said so she can be further victimized) to try and get you into trouble.
Re: Entitled Breeder in the Office October 05, 2010 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |