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And now for the flipside. A rare, sensible parent vs Bridezilla who favors quantity over quality of guests
DEAR ABBY: My husband's sister is being married in a few months. The wedding is in her hometown, which is more than 1,400 miles from where we live. My husband and I have three small children.
Taking our entire family and staying for three or four days will cost almost $3,000. Two of the children would not be able to attend the ceremony without causing a disruption, due to naps, feeding, etc. In spite of the financial burden and the fact that it will be a difficult trip for the children, the bride-to-be is demanding that all of us be there.
Abby, are we obligated to make this trip, or would it be acceptable for only my husband to attend? If he goes alone, he will have time with his sister and the rest of the family, whom he does not get to see very often. We want to do the right thing, but the reality is that taking our family of five would be difficult and stressful for everyone. -- ANXIOUS IN OHIO
DEAR ANXIOUS: Your husband needs to assert himself and talk some sense into his sister. While it is wonderful that she would like to have all of you at her wedding, an invitation is a request -- not a summons. If being there with the children would be stressful financially, logistically and emotionally, you are right to stay home.
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There's a current eHell thread creating quite a bit of breeder consternation: A bride was aghast that despite planning a varied menu that included macaroni & cheese and mild chicken for the kids, one family went out to a nearby McDonald's, brought back bags of food and proceeded to eat it and leave all of their fast-foot trash strewn across the white tablecloth.
Amazing the number of breeders insisting that 4 year olds need to eat "every couple of hours" (I don't remember this; we had breakfast, lunch and dinner and I've never had a cheerio in my life) and otherwise trying to excuse the speshul needs of the chyld. Odd that the obvious solution: Leave HOME anyone who can't conduct himself/herself at a formal dinner party -- doesn't seem to strike them.
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There's a current eHell thread creating quite a bit of breeder consternation: A bride was aghast that despite planning a varied menu that included macaroni & cheese and mild chicken for the kids, one family went out to a nearby McDonald's, brought back bags of food and proceeded to eat it and leave all of their fast-foot trash strewn across the white tablecloth.
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Even if all the nanny and babysitting were provided, you just KNOW that Moomy and Duhd would be getting them out of said care and parading them all over anyways, because we know they can't stand to be separated from their crotch droppings for more than a few minutes at a time.
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With that said, I think destination weddings themselves are rude and entitled.
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