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Hmmm, I've been wondering . . .
Why does it seem mothers proffer way more attention on their sons instead of their daughters? It's an observation I've been making among many of my real life and Facebook friends (not that FB isn't real life, but you know what I mean -- ha!). And yes, if you're a mother with both sons and daughters, I already know what you're going to say:
But, Batista, I love ALL my children EQUALLY! Blah, blah, blah.
Can it, okay? Because, let me tell you: that's sooooo not what I'm seeing! What I see on FB and the blog-o-spheres is a tendency of many mothers to baby the living hell out of their sons, meanwhile giving their daughters what they term a sense of "self dependence." Haha -- but we all know what that really means, right? It means: toughen up, little lady! Because your whole life will be nothing but you fighting for your rights and dignity, and sticking up to the cruel injustices the world inflicts on women.
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A lot of moos are jealous of any woman who steps into their son's lives. I was the recipiant of this jealously twice. First of all my MIL... and then my SIL when her adult son moved in with us for 7 months. I didnt even realize it at first but in hindsight it was very obvious that she was jealous because I was playing kind of a 'mother ' roll in his life. Okay, I was not his mother, nor did I want to be, but I was the 'lady of the house' that he was living in... so, in her mind it was a 'mother roll' and she got so weird over it. I was wondering 'what the heck is wrong with this woman'. Then I figured it out. Jealousy.
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A lot of moos are jealous of any woman who steps into their son's lives. I was the recipiant of this jealously twice. First of all my MIL... and then my SIL when her adult son moved in with us for 7 months. I didnt even realize it at first but in hindsight it was very obvious that she was jealous because I was playing kind of a 'mother ' roll in his life. Okay, I was not his mother, nor did I want to be, but I was the 'lady of the house' that he was living in... so, in her mind it was a 'mother roll' and she got so weird over it. I was wondering 'what the heck is wrong with this woman'. Then I figured it out. Jealousy.
You are absolutely right! A lot of women are jealous of their own daughters, as well, and are capable of being incredibly bitchy. I remember how my mother-- a remote, cold and fearful person-- used to make fun of my petite figure, small breasts and small hips. She spoke resentfully about having children and wished that she had only given birth to my big sister. Sad. On one occasion, when I was a teenager, mom refused to speak to me because I wore a pretty sweater. My mom's sister also is known for her tactless comments and for being passive-aggressive. She has several kids and gets to stay at home all day (her husband has a really good career) and, consequently, is overweight. I'm not judging, just pointing out the truth. We were shopping once at a boutique and I wanted to try on a pretty, old-fashioned dress. My aunt started laughing loudly and saying the dress would never fit somebody "flat", without curves. I already had low self-esteem, and felt completely embarrassed. It wasn't the words that were really too bad-- because I truly love being little and delicate. The knowledge that my mom and aunt were TRYING to be insulting was what felt so painful.
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There's something being pushed now called date night for duhs and daughters. It is seen as bonding time and the moo cannot be present. Duh is supposed to treat the princess to a nice dinner and maybe give her a gift. That sounds like a real date to me. Does he get anything at the end of the night?
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A lot of moos are jealous of any woman who steps into their son's lives. I was the recipiant of this jealously twice. First of all my MIL... and then my SIL when her adult son moved in with us for 7 months. I didnt even realize it at first but in hindsight it was very obvious that she was jealous because I was playing kind of a 'mother ' roll in his life. Okay, I was not his mother, nor did I want to be, but I was the 'lady of the house' that he was living in... so, in her mind it was a 'mother roll' and she got so weird over it. I was wondering 'what the heck is wrong with this woman'. Then I figured it out. Jealousy.