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I am a wife and a mother, both my husband and I feel the loss of one of our sons would be much, much worse to bear than the loss of each other. JEEZ, they've discussed it? These cows simply must not love their husbands very much, is all I can imagine.
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I too would not even respond to someone who is being so insensitive to you. Here is something to think about
If you loose a spouse you are a Widow/ widower
if you loose a parent you are an orphan
but there is no word for the parent left behind when they loose a child
why is that, I think because there is no word great enough to exspress theat kind of loss.
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Grief is grief is grief. While I am sure that losing a child is a terrible experience, I think it is downright cruel to use that to belittle the suffering of others. When it comes to loss, I don't think anyone really knows how anybody feels, and I absolutely hate this bitch for having the audacity to tell someone else that their grief doesn't count as much because it isn't a child who died.
A friend of mine lost her father over a year or so ago, and after the widow gave a heartfelt, funny, and absolutely beautiful eulogy for her late husband at the funeral, this awful woman sitting near me had the audacity to say, "well its not like one of her kids died." Bitch, please. I think I told her to go fuck herself.
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..I wouldnt respond. Their comments are about their grief and struggle with it. I had 2 close friends who are widows one was just 20 and delivered their daughter 2 days after he passed. The other was 25 with a 6 month old son. The grief can not be compared...it is so different and so painful in such different ways. And although it is socially 'accepted' within a month just like us most people are over it. Both my friends have been very great support to me through the lost of my son. For one it has been two years the other just 4 months. Both are in the same amount of pain and disbelief I am. Their husbands can not be replaced just like our children cant be. No one should be planning a funeral this young. I would listen to Kelly and just walk away rather than attack...they dont know our pain and we surely dont know theirs.
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Grief is grief is grief. While I am sure that losing a child is a terrible experience, I think it is downright cruel to use that to belittle the suffering of others. When it comes to loss, I don't think anyone really knows how anybody feels, and I absolutely hate this bitch for having the audacity to tell someone else that their grief doesn't count as much because it isn't a child who died.
A friend of mine lost her father over a year or so ago, and after the widow gave a heartfelt, funny, and absolutely beautiful eulogy for her late husband at the funeral, this awful woman sitting near me had the audacity to say, "well its not like one of her kids died." Bitch, please. I think I told her to go fuck herself.
Honestly, I think it depends. There are people more devasted by the death of a parents and people more devasted by the death of a child.
Also, it is hugely cultural
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I too would not even respond to someone who is being so insensitive to you. Here is something to think about
If you loose a spouse you are a Widow/ widower
if you loose a parent you are an orphan
but there is no word for the parent left behind when they loose a child
why is that, I think because there is no word great enough to exspress theat kind of loss.
Why is that? Because before modern medicine was able to keep every f-ing water head, autard, and premi alive nature kept our numbers in check by high death rates of children. In the past, and actually present, if you loose a child, you simply do "the baby dance" and replace it.
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Gee, I wonder what my husband's stupid, bitch, cunt, whore of a moo would think about all this blood in the veins, and carrying a kid for 9 months. She dumped him and his brother and sister off in an orphanage when he was seven years old, only to be retreived by his drunken, abusive father, who beat the fucking shit out of him until he was 17 and joined the Army. After leaving the service in his early 20's, he contacted her, and she wanted nothing to do with him. Think she'd give a rat's hairy ass if my husband died before her? Hell no. She wouldn't even know it. Another shining example of how breeding makes you a better, selfless person.
Also, from what I understand, she had another one after the first three, with another baby-daddy, whom she SOLD to someone for $5,000.
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