CafeMoo: 4yr old already acting "sexual"? would you be concerned?

4 y.o. step daughter is humping the world and trying to give hand jobs

http://www.cafemom.com/group/115189/forums/read/18680369/4yr_old_already_acting_sexual_would_you_be_concerned

That poor little girl has probably been sexually abused. They should be rushing her to the nearest child psychiatrist rather than posting on a message board.

Holy crap, that has more red flags than a crime scene! Why is the Dud not more concerned? And there IS a stepdad in the picture.

The girls needs an evaluation and STD testing yesterday.

As an aside, isn't it damn sad that she's four years old and her mom is already married to someone else? Dud may not be totally innocent in the picture but at the very least it was probably not a well-thought-out pregnancy or a relationship of long duration that produced this child.

This is such a strong indicator of sexual abuse that I want to slam the moo for being so clueless with her child's life.

"not a well-thought-out pregnancy"

Does this even EXIST?

The word "thought" and "pregnancy" in one sentence amused me.

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Yeah, the whole "don't make a big deal out of it" works when it's something like a kid cursing. Don't freak out and give the kid the attention he wants. Burying your head in the sand and being indifferent does not work when your kid is molesting other kids. There's a big difference between being curious about your body and other kids' bodies and acting out after being sexually abused. A little kid would not know what humping and sex mean unless they heard it or experienced it around another adult.

The fact that the girl doesn't want to talk to her bio mother is telling. Perhaps Moo is the one who abused her, or stood by idly as step-Duh molested/raped her. Sounds like the bio-Duh is afraid of something about violating a court order or some shit, so maybe that's why the step-Moo and bio-Duh aren't doing anything. Step-Moo says they have her in counseling and on meds for ADHD. What the hell does that have to do with anything? Talk about addressing the problem at hand.

From some of the updates, it looks like step-Moo did contact a pediatrician and CPS, but CPS said there wasn't enough evidence to investigate or some shit. She also says there's no way it could be the bio-Duh that abused her because he's only spent about 10 minutes with the girl since she came to live with them. Boy, sounds like quite the involved father! Even then, 10 minutes is plenty of time to rape a kid...but considering the girl's aversion to speaking to or being around bio-Moo, I don't think Duh is the culprit.

Whether the girl was abused or she has seen porn or seen Moo and Step-Duh fucking, an investigation is in order. Hopefully it's not abuse and the custodial parents are just idiots. I bet you anything the kid goes right back to the bio-Moo and the abuse continues, whatever it might be. There's no horny teen brother in the bio-Moo's house that could be molesting the poor girl, so I'm looking at Step-Duhddy.

It's a automatic report when that kid hits school. Moo is in for a surprise.

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Unbelievable that CPS won't investigate. Not enough evidence?

I guess bio dud doesn't really care about the kid and wants to ship her back to the mom, even if she is getting molested.

This is a pretty obvious case to cause GREAT concern, so I don't understand why step-moo is going online to Co-Cows on Cafe-Moo and asking if they'd be concerned with this type of behavior. This of course proves that, even when there is an obvious case of something serious going on with a child, they STILL seek udder rubs from their peers. Of COURSE the Cafe-Cows would be concerned, so asking them is nothing more than Moo on Moo rhetoric and designed for attention. This Step-Moo's concentration should be on getting help for the child, NOT wasting valuable time going online to get attention. I also couldn't help but notice how his seems to entail some Moo VS Step Moo rivalry, so that in and of itself makes me wonder if any of it is even true.

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Someone who is legally blind wouldn't miss that many red flags being thrown. Poor kid.

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That poor little girl has probably been sexually abused. They should be rushing her to the nearest child psychiatrist rather than posting on a message board.

Yup. Sexual behavior in a child that young is almost always a sign of sexual abuse.

Why is it that we know that, and breeders (you know, the people RESPONSIBLE for all these kids) don't?