Wannabe Teen Moo Asks: "Is it bad that I hope I am pregnant?"

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I've only been dating the guy I am with for 2 months. We've had sex a lot. He didn't pull out. I really hope I am pregnant. By the way, we're only 14. Is that bad?

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Yes, You should hope you're not pregnant. It's bad and you're an idiot. You're selfish, immature and ignorant. Sorry, if that sounds harsh. But maybe someone who doesn't know you needs to say something so you can see what you're doing. You are so caught up in this "relationship" you are oblivious to the reality of your situation. Having a baby isn't like playing house when you were 10 (which wasn't that long ago). Do you have any idea of how a baby is going to change your life? It's not something you can just put down when you're tired of taking care of it. A baby is a lifetime commitment and they are expensive. All those things you like to do with your friends, you won't be doing because you will be at home watching your baby. You guys can't even get jobs, so now you would have to burden both sets of parents to raise a child. Here's the real reality..teenage dads rarely stay with their teenage baby mamas. He's an immature 14 year old boy who is only interested in sex. You think he wants a baby? You've only been dating him for 2 months..How long do most high school relationships last? Get your heads out of the clouds. If you are going to have sex, then be smart and protect yourself. Get on the pill and use condoms (protects against disease: HIV, Hep C, STDs, Herpes etc..) Live life, have fun and have a baby in 10 years when you're done with college, have a career and are married and can plan to have one. A child deserves to be raised by adults, not children.

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satansbitch
I've been given more insanity to hurt my brain with. What have I done to deserve it??? I'd like to know so I don't do it anymore.

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drake
Why do crazy newbies like to nerco threads?

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shy lurker

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drake
Why do crazy newbies like to nerco threads?

Basic netiquette never necromance a thread unless you have some very important update on the topic such as lung girl dies.

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Zzelda
"And people like me get laughed at because I can find non-reproductive non-excretory body parts of a woman to look pretty and beautiful."

Honey, I got elbows that would knock your socks off!

I get complimented on them all the time. Seriously. I'm not trying to brag or anything.

If I were able to grow many more arms - I would do so right now.

I would so be a Centipede, if I could be.

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strange aeons

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Zzelda
"And people like me get laughed at because I can find non-reproductive non-excretory body parts of a woman to look pretty and beautiful."

Honey, I got elbows that would knock your socks off!

I get complimented on them all the time. Seriously. I'm not trying to brag or anything.

If I were able to grow many more arms - I would do so right now.

I would so be a Centipede, if I could be.

And my deltoids are prime wank material, if I do say so myself.

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vikingmanhugs
It's not too much ignorance, it's just like what bell_flower said. America thinks that women are only useful as baby factories and I personally find it sad. I'd rather see a woman be free, to find a non-breeding carreer to her life, and be strong. And people like me get laughed at because I can find non-reproductive non-excretory body parts of a woman to look pretty and beautiful.

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Give me a world where we can all hug and be friends without everybody thinking of the nasty stuff. And if the men are mean, be like Etaoin Shrdlu from the Centurion movie and don't take crap from anybody.

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bell_flower
This is what we in the U.S. deserve as a culture because we glorify pregnancy. A woman can be smart, successful and racking up accolades left and right, but nothing is as important as gestating a loaf or what kind of may-n she's caught while doing it.

Every pregnancy is Gawd's gift and all that bullshit. No, sometimes a pregnancy is just two people doing something stupid. Fourteen year old kids aren't blind--they see getting pregnant as a quick, easy way to get accolades without having to do anything special.

We should be telling the truth about pregnancy, that is strains healthy marriages, that baybees are expensive and they can wreck your former life, etc.