"Four years of trying for a baby"

It's mostly wanna-moos who wail about infertility, but just to spice things up, here's a wanna-duh's angst.

That was just GROSS.

Does this guy REALLY BELIEVE that people want to know all about this? Including a Doc who didn't want to shake his porn mag dick hand?

Jesus F. Christ



And the emotional stuff is equally bile inducing.

Fucking adopt a baby you cunts. Yes, I know adoption is expensive and hard work but it's certainly more rewarding than a test tube tard. If they were really desperate to raise a life, they'd go down the fostering route. A friend of my family fosters and they are always being begged to look after children of all ages.

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Zzelda
That was just GROSS.

Does this guy REALLY BELIEVE that people want to know all about this? Including a Doc who didn't want to shake his porn mag dick hand?

Jesus F. Christ



And the emotional stuff is equally bile inducing.

I agree with this!!! EWWWW!!! What is it with breeders and frigging TMI?

This guy is a grade-A dicktard

But they already have a baby. The wanna-Duh is a whiny man-child. Seriously, stop acting like you've got the worst life ever because you're shooting blanks and shut the fuck up. Instead of wasting money on failed fertility treatments and IVF, put that toward adopting a child, or foster some kids (and get paid for it to boot). Someone who can't attend a fucking toadler's birthday party without having a meltdown is someone who is mentally unstable and dos not need goddamn kids to project their neuroses onto. Color me a bitch, but I hope Moo bleeds the clump(s) out again; these two are fucked in their empty heads and they will equally fuck the head of any child they bring into the world.

But nope, they would never consider adoption or fostering because they need to have a home-grown loaf. Someone else's bastard won't be good enough. Actually, I have wondered about something: Do barren wanna-breeders refuse to adopt because a ready-made child would just rub salt in the wound? Do they think to themselves, "We've been trying for 8 years to conceive a child and have spent $400,000 on treatments. We can't buy a child that some dumb whore got knocked up with after a drunken one-night stand and gave up. Why can the dumb, irresponsible whore have a baby so easily and not us?" Basically, would an adopted child serve as another reminder of what their barren asses are incapable of doing? I wouldn't put it past them because breeders and wanna-breeders are truly that selfish that they cannot see beyond their own useless loins.

“Then I took her hand and the three of us walked off in to the city, a family.”

Until…
a. She miscarries again. I think that would be the best thing for that potential kid.
b. You find out your kid’s a tard. Suddenly, you don’t want anything more to do with either of them. I mean, what would your buddies think if they knew your sperm were defective.
c. You find out you’re getting a she loaf and not the golden penis you always wanted. Oh how disappointing.
d. You discover she cheated on you, and that babby is actually someone else’s.
e. You end up getting divorced a couple years after Loafley is born, and Moo takes custody and you never see your kid again.

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efsb
“Then I took her hand and the three of us walked off in to the city, a family.”

Until…
a. She miscarries again. I think that would be the best thing for that potential kid.
b. You find out your kid’s a tard. Suddenly, you don’t want anything more to do with either of them. I mean, what would your buddies think if they knew your sperm were defective.
c. You find out you’re getting a she loaf and not the golden penis you always wanted. Oh how disappointing.
d. You discover she cheated on you, and that babby is actually someone else’s.
e. You end up getting divorced a couple years after Loafley is born, and Moo takes custody and you never see your kid again.

f. Much wanted Baybee is born, and doted on because he/she is the child they thought they'd never have (oh sorry, "bag of love" - blech). Loafley/Loaflina is alternately spoilt and put under pressure to be everything moo and duh envisaged for their precious, cracks under the pressure, and turns to drugs, booze and sex to rebel. Idiot parents don't understand what went wrong, and instead of having a devoted child wiping their asses in old age, they spend all their savings on rehab for the son/daughter and raising a grandbrat in their dotage.

I loved the whine about how the NHS doesn't seem to care about continuing the human race. Our NHS is stretched to capacity caring for the people we've already got here, alive! If I were in charge of it I wouldn't fund any IVF, I would offer infertile couples counselling/therapy, and help them to either adopt/foster, or come to terms with not having children. I would consider the investment in that therapy and helping those couples who wanted to adopt to go through the process a much more worthwhile investment for society.

But of course, we are conditioned to believe that we cannot love a child that isn't made of our DNA, so it probably won't happen.

If your marriage is "on the verge of divorce" because your reproductive organs don't work, you don't have a marriage. You have an "I want adequate dick snot" contract and you need to bail now.

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nargacuga
Fucking adopt a baby you cunts. Yes, I know adoption is expensive and hard work but it's certainly more rewarding than a test tube tard.

This. I don't understand it. They bitch that adoption is to expensiveeee and time-consumingggg but they'll destroy their bodies and finances doing IVF for years and years.

I'm against IVF but whatever, do whatever the fuck you want. But don't say "I want a bayybeee so badlyy" and then turn around and say adoption isn't an option for you, because what you really want is a DNA replicant.

They are in the UK - adoption here is not expensive at all. There are tons of kids waiting for adoption here, prospective adoptive parents do not have to pay anything. It is time consuming though, and the waiting can be heartbreaking for people who really do want to adopt a child. Prospective adopters have to go through counselling and parenting courses for at least 6 months, but it can take years to be matched with a child.

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bell_flower
If your marriage is "on the verge of divorce" because your reproductive organs don't work, you don't have a marriage. You have an "I want adequate dick snot" contract and you need to bail now.

Yep, people literally destroy themselves physically and mentally in order to fulfill the "life-script".

I noticed the pressure coming at them from friends and family, no matter what they put themselves through. Sad that people let themselves live that way. Some people need a shot of STFU. But you have to be willfully disobedient to the life script to have the guts to do that.