Dear Prudie: My MIL didn't disclose she has Huntington's Disease Because She Wanted Grandbrats March 18, 2014 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,200 |
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It is obvious my mother-in-law has known something about this for more than a decade. Her own mother and several of her aunts died of it
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Symptoms of the disease can vary between individuals and even among affected members of the same family, but usually progress predictably. The earliest symptoms are often subtle problems with mood or cognition. A general lack of coordination and an unsteady gait often follows. As the disease advances, uncoordinated, jerky body movements become more apparent, along with a decline in mental abilities and behavioral and psychiatric problems. Physical abilities are gradually impeded until coordinated movement becomes very difficult. Mental abilities generally decline into dementia. Complications such as pneumonia, heart disease, and physical injury from falls reduce life expectancy to around twenty years after symptoms begin. There is no cure for HD, and full-time care is required in the later stages of the disease.
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Re: Dear Prudie: My MIL didn't disclose she has Huntington's Disease Because She Wanted Grandbrats March 19, 2014 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,200 |
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not to do all the cuntwork with it and then have it die, because grandmoo wanted a DNA replicant to play with.
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only about 20 percent of adults at risk for the illness choose to find out if they are carriers. The society's guidelines for testing point out that in the absence of neurological symptoms, there is almost never a reason to test a young person for the disease, which tends to strike in middle age. Your husband may decide to be in that 20 percent as you contemplate having more children, but there is no rush about making that choice.
Re: Dear Prudie: My MIL didn't disclose she has Huntington's Disease Because She Wanted Grandbrats March 19, 2014 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 2,212 |
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not to do all the cuntwork with it and then have it die, because grandmoo wanted a DNA replicant to play with.
Huntington's disease usually starts to affect a person when they are in their 30's or 40's, so barring any other condition or accident the parents would raise the child.
But if Dud has the condition, he's not going to be able to raise the kid and the kid will grow up with a sick parent. Not to mention the anxiety of growing up and wondering whether you have the gene too.
And I agree that Dud was the typical clueless Breeder. I don't care whether something is officially genetic or not--I'd be investigating all of those things if I wanted to breed.
But most people don't feel that way. La-la-la-la, stick the fingers in their ears, don't tell me I can't have a baybee. Prudie's quote from the Huntington society confirms this:Quote
only about 20 percent of adults at risk for the illness choose to find out if they are carriers. The society's guidelines for testing point out that in the absence of neurological symptoms, there is almost never a reason to test a young person for the disease, which tends to strike in middle age. Your husband may decide to be in that 20 percent as you contemplate having more children, but there is no rush about making that choice.
Translation: most people don't want to know, so they crank out loaves and hope for the best. Unconscionable.
IMO, Husband should be tested pronto so they know what they are facing. And if he has it, forget this bullshit about "genetic counseling" before they loaf again--he has no business having more kids if he's going to be dead before they are 20.
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The story at http://curehd.blogspot.com/2011/12/kates-untested-baby-huntingtons-disease.html is about a moo named Kate who knows she has Huntingtons and still decides to have a child without testing it. She already knows she won't live to raise this child and is lining up grandmoo to raise it. All due to the delusion that god won't give you more than you can handle.
When others point out that this moo is endangering her child she whines about feeling judged.
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Yes, this idiot moo had her baybee. She does not have a job becase she is too ill, nor is she married, but she did get grandmoo to agree to raise it. Many of these familes complain about the suffering caused by the disease and plead for money to support them and research for a cure. But when it comes to breeding, then suddenly the disease is not so bad and they will just roll the dice.
When responsible parents abort defectives loaves they get judged about how life with a terrible disease is better than no life.
A related story at http://curehd.blogspot.com/2011/12/angel-fighting-for-cure-huntingtons.html where a parent has Huntingtons, tests and aborts the first defective loaf and then the second is tested and found free. A bunch of breeders complain that the parents should have accepted whatever they got and not been responsible and choosing.