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evilchildlessbitch
I also don't see why they feel like they can tell me I should be happy to give up my private space in my bedroom or that we should convert the office back to a third bedroom for the summer because OMG people have kids.
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teslafanatic
Wow, how disgusting... I hope you don't let them down too nicely, because they are being entitled jerks and quite honestly deserve an ass chewing.
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learnernotlurker
I lived in Florida for three years and New York relatives showed up several times on the front steps with suitcases. My mother always sent me to answer the door, where I would say sweetly, "Oh, it's just not possible now. If only you'd let us know" (not that that would have made a difference; I gave the same sentence over the phone). Then I shut the door in their faces and leaned in so that they could hear the door lock.
Don't let yourself be intimidated: if you think you owe people a polite response, remember the possibilities include a polite NO.
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evilchildlessbitch
I keep thinking if we say no enough they will get the hint. Their current bullshit is combination of breeder needs, not being used to my husband saying no before we married and just plain refusal to deal with reality.
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