"I'm a new mom, what if I never work full-time again?" July 18, 2015 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,206 |
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I do want to be clear that I consider my husband’s money to be my own and I have zero qualms at this stage in life about spending it. The division of labor (though I don’t consider caring for a child to be “labor†so much as it is “livingâ€) runs like this: I take care of our daughter, I manage our finances, I take out the trash, I run the errands and cook the meals, I take the dog to the vet, and I call the plumber when a pipe bursts. He works. At a job. For money. He works a lot and very hard. We both work equal amounts of hard, and we’re OK with this arrangement. Therefore, I have earned the right to spend his money, which isn’t, in fact, his. It’s ours.
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I service him in bed, even when I'm not in the mood.
Re: "I'm a new mom, what if I never work full-time again?" July 19, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,308 |
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I do want to be clear that I consider my husband’s money to be my own and I have zero qualms at this stage in life about spending it. The division of labor (though I don’t consider caring for a child to be “labor†so much as it is “livingâ€) runs like this: I take care of our daughter, I manage our finances, I take out the trash, I run the errands and cook the meals, I take the dog to the vet, and I call the plumber when a pipe bursts. He works. At a job. For money. He works a lot and very hard. We both work equal amounts of hard, and we’re OK with this arrangement. Therefore, I have earned the right to spend his money, which isn’t, in fact, his. It’s ours.
I work and I take care the finances, the trash and home maintenance. Where's my cookie?
Equal amounts of hard? Nice try, but I'm not buying it that staying home and making one's own schedule for the most part are equal to working for someone else and following their deadlines. Not even close.
I know there are people on this page who have arrangements where they stay home. I'm not starting this topic to make an issue out of that. My point is: when I was in school somewhere along the line I learned that the greatest indicator of whether a woman lived in poverty was whether she had children. Why? Because of the divorce rate and death, etc.
In an alternative universe where I sprogged, I wouldn't have stopped working. I just wouldn't feel comfortable and I want my own pension and savings. I know plenty of women who continued to work after their kids were born.
IMO, this woman can't really afford to have a child. Yeah, she can live off her husband, but what happens if he wants out?
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