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I HATE Fathers' Day. I lost my father to a freak car accident when I was 4 and it easily beats out Valentine's Day and Giftmas as the most horrible time of the year. When I was little the whole class had to make Fathers' Day cards in class because, in the suburban breederville I grew up in, everyone was assumed to have an unbroken fable with a white picket fence and two and a half cars. If you had no father you and to make one for an uncle. Cthulhu forbid you were the product of someone widowed or divorced. Classmates spread rumors--not just among themselves but to teachers--that my parents had gone through a nasty divorce which explained why I was so fucked up. I wanted to rip the trauma right out of me and fling it in their simpering faces.
In the third grade I vetoed and told the teacher straight out that there was no way in hell I was going to keep reopening the wound every year by making a Fathers' Day card for my one uncle who I was never very close with or my other uncle who hollered and howled so much it's a wonder my aunt hasn't gone completely deaf by now. She gave me a strange look but I held my ground.
There was never any more forced making of cards for that sickening Hallmark-invented holiday ever again.
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I HATE Fathers' Day. I lost my father to a freak car accident when I was 4 and it easily beats out Valentine's Day and Giftmas as the most horrible time of the year. When I was little the whole class had to make Fathers' Day cards in class because, in the suburban breederville I grew up in, everyone was assumed to have an unbroken famblee with a white picket fence and two and a half cars. If you had no father you and to make one for an uncle. Cthulhu forbid you were the product of someone widowed or divorced. Classmates spread rumors--not just among themselves but to teachers--that my parents had gone through a nasty divorce which explained why I was so fucked up. I wanted to rip the trauma right out of me and fling it in their simpering faces.
In the third grade I vetoed and told the teacher straight out that there was no way in hell I was going to keep reopening the wound every year by making a Fathers' Day card for my one uncle who I was never very close with or my other uncle who hollered and howled so much it's a wonder my aunt hasn't gone completely deaf by now. She gave me a strange look but I held my ground.
There was never any more forced making of cards for that sickening Hallmark-invented holiday ever again.
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It was only earlier this year that I finally acknowledged to myself that my mom was in fact emotionally abusive, not just "really stressed" and "well people were always mean to her". It did not make her a good mother! I'm still in the anger stage, I see and hear all these stories of people's good mothers and I just want to shout "its not always like that!" And now mothers day and everyone will be pushing it down my throat to be "thankful". For what? Years of abuse since I was old enough to talk?
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I hate mother's day anyway, since my mother is dead and it's a very painful reminder. This year, my birthday falls on mother's day. So, fuck that.
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Maybe this year, I'll just go along with them, if only for the laughs.
Example: clerk wishes me happy moo day.
Me: (smiling) Thank you.
Clerk: How many do you have?
Me: Two!
Clerk: Boys? Girls?
Me: Two girls!
Clerk: Awww! How old are they?
Me: (trying to hold back my laughter, gives out the ages)
Clerk: Ohhh, those are such great ages!
Me: Yes, they are! They're my pride and joy! (leaves store)
Clerk has no clue I've been talking about my two dogs.
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How many days until we have to hear about how much money a mom would make if she were paid a fair salary for the loafin? There is always at least one of those obnoxious articles this time of year.
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It was only earlier this year that I finally acknowledged to myself that my mom was in fact emotionally abusive, not just "really stressed" and "well people were always mean to her". It did not make her a good mother! I'm still in the anger stage, I see and hear all these stories of people's good mothers and I just want to shout "its not always like that!" And now mothers day and everyone will be pushing it down my throat to be "thankful". For what? Years of abuse since I was old enough to talk?
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