why do ppl think we stay childfree so we can raise other ppls kids?! November 02, 2015 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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Cambion
I don't see why childfreedom is such a difficult concept to grasp. If I don't want my own goddamn kids, why the fuck would I want yours?
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Cambion
why the fuck would you want someone who specifically hates/dislikes/doesn't want kids to help you raise your child?
Re: why do ppl think we stay childfree so we can raise other ppls kids?! November 03, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,975 |
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ladybug2203
Its an older story but I just remembered it today, I was 23 at the time (28 now) my mother suggested I meet and marry my dads 37 yr old colleague (doctors), and at 23 37 seems ancient, because he already has a 9 yr old son (mother died) child is already built in so I dont have to have one! Eugh. This dude was so desperate for a live in nanny he married a chick he met on a trip to vegas. Plus poor kid losing his mother probably has serious issues, and he'd be with us 24/7 cuz moo is gone, no fucking thank u! Why do ppl think if we dont want our own it means we want to raise other ppls?! The stupid hurts
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freya
Think it is because most single people WOULD date/marry someone who has kids. Even folks who don't want to have kids will often buckle and marry/date someone with kids, even if they would prefer a SO without kids. Can't help but think some men purposely date women with kids because they know the women are occupied with the kids and it gives them plenty of room for hanging out with their friends (or other girlfriends). I don't understand it but I've heard (mostly men) date women who have kids and whine about it, as if they don't have other options.