men have less reproductive rights than women, not none at all, just less.
for example, if a woman was to on purpose gets pregnant without the mans consent, as in poking holes in condoms, taking a used condom and using a turkey baster. shouldnt the man be able to say look i never agreed to becoming a father. having a kid is a long term commitment in terms of money, and other intangibles.
if the man finds out it isnt his child, should he pay for it, the mother can claim he is the father and pay for years, but when its found out that its not his, does the man have no rights to say this isnt my kid, why am i paying.
part of the problem is, when my fiancee says she wants a tubal, i mean she really wants it, cf women and other women say i the man should be the one instead, its all about your body, and your rights. if i want a vasectomy isnt it my decision, just like having a tubal is your decision, they want it both ways, they dont want kids, but they want someone else to solve that problem. if you dont want kids you get a tubal or a vasectomy, dont put the need/blame on someone else.
and as for holding women to a higher standard, its not the authors idea, the whole country holds single mothers to the higher standard because they claim a higher standard.
men have rights too, but they are frequently over shadowed by single mothers rights, there is a systemic pro mother policy in public use. even if the man has never been with the woman or even in the same state, he could be called as being the father.
http://www.reason.com/news/show/29035.html
if he doesnt want to be a father or another father, then as the article says, he may lose everything, and end up in dire straits, all for her want of another child. theres been cases where the need for that almighty brat, destroys a family, and frequently its the man that has to pay.
"a man is not allowed to say “enough is enough” or “we can’t afford it” or “I’m not sure I can be as good a Father if I spread myself too thin” lest he be labeled an insensitive clod"
"If a man asks his wife to have more children because he always wanted a large family, he’s a sexist pig. If a woman does it, she’s simply exercising her biological rights. If a man asks his wife if they can limit the size of their family because he’s stressed out enough as it is he’s…a sexist pig. If a woman does it? Duh. She’s exercising her biological rights"
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