I would love it if he gave this bitch her walking papers
I'm (m31) married to my wife (30), we have one kid (f3) and are expecting our second baby. We also have one dog who's a small breed and sleeps inside and two cats. Usually I'm the one who takes care of the pets because my wife doesn't like it that much, I clean after them, take the dog out to walk/ go outside, brush the cats, clean their litter boxes, etc. My wife only occasionally feeds them.
My wife gets irritable during the first months of ger pregnancies due to hormones. With our first baby she claimed she hated videogames so I just stopped playing videogames until after our daughter was born. This time however she's getting irritated about the pets. She says the dog barks and makes her head ache, I told her to just let it go outside if the weather is nice but she said that pets are my responsibility so she won't do that. Well what else can she do? I am working so I can't go home and let the dog out whenever she feels like it. She then complained because she opened a can of "fish" the other day and it turned out to be cat's food, suddenly I was the one to blame again although she made the mistake. She also started talking about how cats or dogs fur can be dangerous for the baby or herself. This has been going on for weeks, every day she has a new complain when I get home.
A few days ago she finally suggested the great idea of finding the cats and the dog a new house because she can't put up with them anymore. I try to just let it go because I know she's irritated but she just won't drop it. Yesterday we were having an argument because I had to stay an extra hour and half in work so I was late for walking the dog and it was barking a lot (according to her), I'm pretty tired of it by now so I'm getting angry at her, she told me again to get rid of the pets but this time I snapped at her. Our argument got worse, she told me I cared more about the pets than about her and I told her she was right.
She never had a health complication related to the pets and they were with us before our first pregnancy. I think she's ridiculous and she's trying to get me to be angry and start an argument. I know what I said wasn't ideal but what else she wanted me to say? To just give in and get rid of our family's pets?
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CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!
people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong
Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.
The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.
Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.
People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke
Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.