"Too good" to do a job????

I am doing better than yesterday but still need to vent as some issues came up over some nasty stuff. People with children...especially moos...are a nasty lot. They have such entitlement issues. Long story short is that a former co-worker from a decade ago was making a big stink over her married daughter working a part-time deal after Baybee #3 was born.

The daughter started cleaned offices at night when Hubby's stretched salary could not handle another kid. The moo was able to stay at home with the two children but a third was making things tough. She was "devastated" at learning she was expecting a third child but would not abort due to being a born-again Christian. Too fucking bad for her! She chose her religion. No one made her go to that stupid church!

My friend/co-worker made a nasty statement of how HER daughter should not have to clean toilets for pay but the husband better get a second job. Never mind his first job as an assistant manager at a market kept him more than busy. Why is it that these married moos are "too good" to clean toilets while *I* DID work for a cleaning company as a second job close to three years ago to earn extra money due to the higher cost of living.

It is okay for a childfree-by-choice woman to mop floors and clean toilets with piss on the seats in a doctor's office while my former co-worker bemoans her daughter doing the same??? Hey...the woman's daughter already had two kids with her husband so she damned well knew what fucking without protection would do -- make another baybee!

That's bullshit Am. Seriously.

The breeder daughter is already cleaning shit and piss so what's the big deal if she does it for a living?

I swear these breeder moos and their breeder moos think they've descended from royalty. Too "good" to do a job? I think not. Who's fault is it that dumbass has no other skills to do another job? Oh gee, something more "dignified" maybe? They make me sick.

The mayun is always expected to pick up the slack created by the breeding female. It's time they get their lazy asses out to work.

If the man you are marrying is as far as he will go in his "career" and isn't making 6 figures and won't be able to support you in the lifestyle you think you are entitled, then maybe you better think twice about marrying the man. If you want to live a lifestyle with oodles of kids and expensive things, then go gold-digging for a rich mayun.

I can't wait for the day - if it ever comes - where these religious assholes wake up and smell the coffee and realize they've made a fucking mess of their lives all in the name of religion. GAWD it must suck to be them.

If you've ripped yourself from stem to stern pushing something out your vagina, and spent x number of years cleaning up body fluids and changing diapers, then "No, you aren't too good to clean toilets". In fact, NO ONE is "TOO GOOD" to clean toilets. Seriously, how do they get clean? Or do these people who think they're "too good" just wallow in their own filth?

KidFreeLuvnLife Wrote:
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> That's bullshit Am. Seriously.
>
> The breeder daughter is already cleaning shit and
> piss so what's the big deal if she does it for a
> living?
>
> I swear these breeder moos and their breeder moos
> think they've descended from royalty. Too "good"
> to do a job? I think not. Who's fault is it that
> dumbass has no other skills to do another job? Oh
> gee, something more "dignified" maybe? They make
> me sick.
>
> The mayun is always expected to pick up the slack
> created by the breeding female. It's time they
> get their lazy asses out to work.

Exactly, KFLL! The breeder-daughter is already scrubbing the toilet at home. Jeez...it might be nice to get paid for it elsewhere. The same co-worker thought the owner of the car dealership was "mean" to have his granddaughter do cleaning duties at the place, which included bathroom duty, rather than let her use Grandpa's name by having a cushy position available to her. Just as this co-worker got huffy about her daughter having to leave office buildings at night, she got an attitude about our boss and how he handled his own family.

I do believe the grandfather was correct with having his grandchild work from the bottom. The girl was a teen with no work experience. What did this co-worker think our boss should do? Have her do title clerk work and then have fuck-ups with DMV as she had no experience or be a manager and then have bad morale from employees who had to take orders from the "owner's little grandkid"? Also...her mother was a young moo who got knocked up by some jerk. I do believe the granddad wanted to make it very clear to his granddaughter, who he did love, that she was not going to skate by in life due to the family name, business, and wealth.

It is amazing how these lower to middle-class breeders actually believe their own breeder daughters are "too good" to do menial work or clean toilets in offices to make money. But...it is okay for someone like myself to scrub those piss pots so I do not get an eviction notice on my door. I also liked Feh's post at how we all do this work at home...unless these moos wallow in their own filth. I've had to do some horrid jobs to pay the bills: office cleaning, courier work (which was basically "piece work" where the owner got rich off of the sweat of our labour as well as gassing up our own cars), and even worked a grill at Wendy's as an ADULT. I did what I needed to do to eat and have a place to live.

I worked one security site where one of the client's employees was telling her co-worker -- both were moos -- how it was the MAN'S duty to get a second job rather than the Madonna wife to work more than part-time to make the bills. Yet...these same dames wonder why an overworked man will often look elsewhere for "recreation"...if ya know what I mean. I have had to "pick up the slack" while I still lived with my soon-to-be slacker ex-husband. I know the feeling of resentment very well and how that does destroy a marriage when ONE person is working like an ass to barely keep $$$ afloat.

Am, somehow I doubt this 3rd kid was an accident. I wouldn't be surprised if Moomie oopsed her husband so she could have another 18 years as a lazy assed SAHM. And was shocked, SHOCKED to realize she'd finally have to kick in a paycheck for the family's finances.

Said Moomie also seems to have no grasp of economics. Three kids will cost more than two (did she flunk elementary school arithmetic, as well?).

I hope her hubby sticks to his guns and she has to keep her part-time job (oh the agony!), and if he's smart (and has read truemomconfessions), he'll get snipped on the sly.

Happy Friday, and celebrate World Childfree Day, June 3rd (no, I'm not getting paid to advertise this, but it's great that we have a day for ourselves).

Feh, you rock!

This is what is known in the vocational biz as a "transferrable skill." If you can clean toilets at home, you can certainly do it at work (and besides, isn't it better to be PAID FOR IT? Of course, then the bimbos wouldn't have something to bitch about).

And if you were to see the glass as half full, you could then give yourself a gold star for how much better the toilet looks after it's cleaned (hey, some people really get off on that).

Work is work. And as this piece of garbage hasn't figured out yet, she accepted a job and is getting a paycheck to do certain tasks. If she don't want to do the certain tasks, LEAVE. They'll find someone else who has a better attitude and a better work ethic. Probably another poor uneducated Moo, such as said bimbo.

My guess is, that Moomie doesn't have more than a hs diploma (if that).

Nah, Annie, the co-worker's daughter quit the cleaning job and was going to be the Sunday receptionist but that ended as well. I do not know what happened as I have been out of touch with my former co-worker for close to ten years. You're right how the lady's daughter did not have anything other than a H.S. Diploma. Neither do I...other than certification to work security...but I never expected to be the CEO of some company and worked shit jobs on the side...

so the man has to provide, to death (as we die earlier), men work longer hours, and so we get paid more, if women were to work the same hours a man does.. she will get paid the same amount..

so essentially, he is a slave to the woman, she can stay home and do bugger all, but the man works 8 hours a day, to provide and its never enough, some women want men to take 2 or 3 jobs. (i know this as it happened to a friend of mine). but he cant leave as he would have no money, and she would still have it all.

i have heard stories about men who work 10 hours a day, while she sits at home, alledgely looking after the kids, and when he comes home, theres no food on the table, and he has to look after the kids and cook, and clean. is that fair.. if a woman stays home, to look after the kids, its only right that she cooks and cleans the home for him.. just as how it would be the other way round.


with me and some of my medical conditions, i am unable to do certain jobs, its not good for me or others around me.

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Lord, what fools these mortals be!
- A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Act III, Scene ii

Voltaire said: "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."

H.L.Mencken wrote:"The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary.”

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former. Albert Einstein

Am, kudos to you for being industrious and employed. You've got something they can't teach in school - motivation, work ethic, and smarts.

It just seemed a safe assumption that that twit got no further in school than hs, because if she'd had a degree, she might have actually gotten a job that she didn't think was beneath her (although from what you wrote, I'm sure anything that didn't involve her sitting around as a queen and doing absolutely NOTHING and getting paid big bucks for it, would be beneath her - I've dealt with clients like that).

No matter how old they are, the real world is always such a shock to them. Sucks to be them, ecstatic to be US! Have a great weekend!

She is already cleaning shit and piss at home made me laugh out loud and I am at work.
I hope the husband gets snipped so he doesn't wind up with another mouth to feed.
I can't imagine having any kids but 3! Totally irresponsible. She just had to have that 3rd kid so she has no right to whine about it now. Seems she had just what she wanted with the first two. No one to blame but herself now.

amethusos* Wrote:
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> Why is it that these married moos are "too good" to clean toilets
> while *I* DID work for a cleaning company as a
> second job close to three years ago to earn extra
> money due to the higher cost of living.

'Cause you don't have kyyyyyyds, that's why! They think they're better than us in every possible way.

Let's not forget that scores of men willingly sign up for this arrangement. In fact, I broke up with a guy who wanted me to have no job and stay home. So is it fair? Well, sure. They've agreed to the arrangement. Bed. Made. Lie, boys.
I don't feel sorry for 'ya.

You can see this attitude all over Craigslist. Baristas and gorcery baggers whining that they're not treated as equals by their customers, even though they are really smart and going to college or grad school or whatever and going to have a good job someday...

It really aggravates me. Yes, I worked crap jobs and I had the potential to be a successful entrepreneur with a graduate degree, as I actually AM today. But the reason I was working the crap jobs is that although I had the potential, I had not yet acquired all the skills and done all the hard work needed to be where I am today. I was not yet the equal of the people I waited on. I had the potential, true but had not yet realized it.

I think most of the teens and twenty-somethings in these jobs have been raised now with that crackpot idea that they were, as children, "equal" to adults, and now they think that although they are starting out at the bottom, they are still somehow equal to business owners and experienced professionals (I'm using equal here strictly limited to the workplace and one's place in the job market). They don't realize they give themselves away when they whine, "Just because I can only get a job like this" or "Just because I have to work here first". The fact is, if you DO work at a job like that and you CAN'T quit tomorrow and go into business for yourself and support yourself, you must not have done everything one would need to do in order to do that. And I have. Which makes the person checking me out at the supermarket or serving me my coffee...NOT my equal, not in the sense of job skills, education, and experience. And I do appreciate that they may be there someday, but that day hasn't arrived yet.

Jappygrrl, I worked as a bagger for two markets from the early 80's to 1990 as a second job. It was always these upper-crust Marinite (snide term for Marin County people) housewives who looked down on us for doing a "stupid person's" job. Same when I worked fast-food. Funny how their husbands would be the ones hitting on the bagger girls or even the gals at the fast-food place despite the men being yuppies!

There were also some males who had the same attitude. Yet...there would be an uproar if we did live in a socialist system and got our asses fired while receiving unemployment for a very long time. These people get so huffy over a person doing a menial job but then will screech if the worker decides to live off the government. Cannot have it both ways. I'd love to see the little homemaker or the CEO bag his/her own groceries and grill their own burgers.

I do agree that a teenybopper or an unskilled person is not my equal on a job where I have more experience. As a person on just a personal level, I am no better than anyone else unless the other individual has hurt someone else or committed a crime. I've known people who come from well-to-do backgrounds or claim to have the "Southern Gentility" yet are the biggest hos or just plain evil people.

I also worked with a guy who was a mere child when I entered security yet I felt I had to defer to this 25/year-old fuck when we were both on duty just to keep the piece. The overgrown kid acted like he was "in charge"...but he was the one who got fired from the site. Payback is a bitch and so am I!

"Before you eat in a resturant, you should work in a resturant". Seriously, one should treat people who are serving you with at least a modicum of decency. Simply because you might think they aren't as smart, educated, or motivated to do "better" in life, doesn't mean they aren't human beings. Simply because your server isn't your social "equal" (whatever the hell THAT means) doesn't give you an excuse, no matter how high up you are in the employment chain, to treat them like slaves here for your pleasure. Remember, without the service staff there would be no resturants, no taxis, no retail, no coffee shops, no hotels, no spas, no hair dressers, no resorts, no hospitals and no jiffy lubes. They're the ones in charge of getting that food or drink to you, they're the ones in charge of making sure the room at that adults-only resort is clean and they're going to be the ones wiping your ass in the hospital.

Nour Wrote:
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> Let's not forget that scores of men willingly sign
> up for this arrangement. In fact, I broke up with
> a guy who wanted me to have no job and stay home.
> So is it fair? Well, sure. They've agreed to the
> arrangement. Bed. Made. Lie, boys.
> I don't feel sorry for 'ya.


I hear you, Nour! On this site, I have mentioned an ex-boyfriend, who was ten years older, from the early 1980's who willingly married twice before and had a son with each wife. Then...he leaves the women paying NO child support...yet he whined how he wanted ME to have two brats with him. And...he cried :bawl how he hated abortion when I thought I was pregnant and told him that I would make arrangements for an abortion. After he said that shit, I coldly reminded him that he better realise how he hates monogamy and fatherhood far worse than his hatred of abortion so he better shut the fuck up about MY choice. Luckily, it was just the b/c pills that made my periods next to nothing. I am a real cunt when some asshole man tries to tell *me* that I should not abort. I broke off with this ego-bloated shithead shortly after.

Feh Wrote:
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> "Before you eat in a resturant, you should work in
> a resturant". Seriously, one should treat people
> who are serving you with at least a modicum of
> decency. Simply because you might think they
> aren't as smart, educated, or motivated to do
> "better" in life, doesn't mean they aren't human
> beings. Simply because your server isn't your
> social "equal" (whatever the hell THAT means)
> doesn't give you an excuse, no matter how high up
> you are in the employment chain, to treat them
> like slaves here for your pleasure. Remember,
> without the service staff there would be no
> resturants, no taxis, no retail, no coffee shops,
> no hotels, no spas, no hair dressers, no resorts,
> no hospitals and no jiffy lubes. They're the ones
> in charge of getting that food or drink to you,
> they're the ones in charge of making sure the room
> at that adults-only resort is clean and they're
> going to be the ones wiping your ass in the
> hospital.

I feel the same way, Feh. The Marinite bitches, who would tap the counter with their perfectly manicured nails that had never been in dishwater, should also work retail before they act out in their cuntastic manner. And...the aging yuppie motherfucker, who loved to be a dick to me or the assistant manager when he came into the 7-Eleven for his cigarettes, should also have to spend a month working in that store and see what it is like to be considered "stupid" for working in a convenience store. I may not have this guy's money or fancy car but I can survive on a month for what he may make in a half of a week's salary. I did tell this prick off, by the way , and my boss backed me, a rarity in any biz.

i treat waiters and waitresses the same, unless they are awful, then i dont tip.

in the UK its unusual to tip unless they go far and above their duty, if they are happy, pleasent, but if they are miserable grumpy people..

but then all staff here get minimum wage of about $11

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Lord, what fools these mortals be!
- A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Act III, Scene ii

Voltaire said: "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."

H.L.Mencken wrote:"The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary.”

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former. Albert Einstein

It's been said that you can tell the true colors of a person by how they treat the wait staff in a restaurant. SO and I were out eating one night when a very upset, near tears waitress came over to take our drink orders. I said "Let me guess, some asshole's pissed you off?" her reply was, "Oh god, are you a waitress too? Don't you hate that?" to which I replied, "No but people are just generally assholes." We all had a good laugh, it cheered her up big time, we got GREAT service, a free dessert and she got a real nice tip.

It's stupid to look down one's nose at anyone, what's the point? If it makes you feel better to treat the grocery clerks, waiters, valet people, etc., like shit because you "feel" they are beneath you, then you have some serious issues and need a reality check. Everyone has to work to make ends meet and it's never good karma to pass judgement.

Besides, with the way the shitty economy in this country is headed, pretty soon the only jobs will BE the service industry jobs!!!

Dead on, Feh. It basically comes down to "treat others as you'd like to be treated." Or to quote, Earl J. Hickey, "Do good things, and good things happen. Do bad things and bad things happen." What is so difficult to understand?

If I had the patience, I'd feel sorry for yuppies and yushies who think they're better than everyone else. News flash, they're not! Just because a person has more money, a bigger house, a fleet of expensive cars, does not make them a better or more exalted person.

As it is, I treat people the way I like to be treated. With courtesy and respect. I go to a few favorite restaurants, get excellent service, and I tip well.

And I keep believing in Karma, because Karma works!