"I believe many women think this is a "fun & cool" bandwagon to jump on only to rethink things and have those babies later on. "
Yeah, I've seen it happen. Out of curiosity I visited a site you're probably all familiar with, called Tanglewood. That whole community seems to be the "I used to be CF but changed my mind" crowd. My attitude is, Who cares? Why are you still clinging to CF-dom if you're so happy being a parent? Why do you hang out on a CF board, talking about how fabulous parenthood is? And why do supposed CFers hang out at a place like that, defending their choice?
Once you've had a kid, there is no going back. Get used to it, and at least focus your efforts on raising the kid right.
