heres some info for you, saying pre nups are not always the answer.. not everywhere and not all the time
http://uk.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/133_dating_advice.html/posts/909466/10
Also, in the US states tend to consider most prenups invalid after 10 years of marriage, apparently with the presumption that a woman married that long intended to stay married and not simply turn around and divorce right after marriage. Also, contesting prenups during divorce is common in the US, and often judges do overturn them, even in cases of brief marriages. Anecdotal evidence on one forum I frequent says that marriages with a prenup seldom last more than a few years, so it's almost as if the prenup does poison the relationship. In sum: prenups are no panacea.
http://www.ncfamilylaw.com/download/prenup48.html
Don't count on escaping alimony payments. In New York and a few other states (including North Carolina), a spouse-to-be can waive the right to alimony. But Eleanor Alter (Patricia Duff's lawyer) points out that, if the judge thinks the deal's unfair, he or she can order you to pay anyway, no matter what the agreement might say. And in North Carolina there's a further restriction: if the terms of a "pre-nupt" eliminate spousal support and this causes one party to the agreement to be eligible for public assistance, the judge can --notwithstanding the terms of the agreement -- require the wealthier party to provide support
http://www.bauerfamilylaw.com/prenuptialagreement.html
In a few states, such as Maine, the agreement will automatically lapse after the birth of a child, unless the parties renew the agreement. In other states, a certain number of years of marriage will cause a prenuptial agreement to lapse. In states that have adopted the UPAA (Uniform Prenuptial Agreement Act), no sunset provision is provided by statute, but one could be privately contracted for.
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