Why yes, the breeders DO struggle. Poor things. A clear illustration that they need yet more tax breaks, refunds, exceptions made, standards lowered, etc. To hell with the rest of society who may be suffering. If you haven't birthed that almighty cribling, well then your life just ain't worth a shit.
Again, if you cannot afford children, please do not have them. The Childfree and those with grown kids are tired of picking up the tab and the slack.