What you've described in your post is the bowels of hell. I cannot imagine a life where diaper changing, shit, diarreah, snot, noise, chaos, toys all over the place, screaming, needyness, etc., is part of my everyday routine. You have to take pity on the poor dumb bastards, their life before kids was peaceful and serene. Now they have nothing for themselves. It's all for the kid. No thanks.