ITA. Why all the frustration after all this time? I miss it like hell but we have our new communities, better in someways and worse in others, but we still have them. IMHO, there was some negativity on that board that didn't make sense anymore to me. You would rant about something legit, and then people would start flaming ya about nothing,"if you don't like your job, then quit." "if you don't like your family, then disown them" "if your spouse isn't as militant as you, then leave him" Yes, sometimes it may come to these things but it was a rant board that people didn't want to hear the rants on and had a solution for everything. Also, some people would just post every damn People mag article, every little sizzler item or every celeb comment every damn day, even tho I agreed w/ the rants, it got boring in that regard.
Please give it up. He was nice enough to get us together in the first place, let him live his life. This is one point where I think it is appropriate to say that you gotta get over it.