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Miss_Hannigan
Aren't you men of Bratfree grateful that you don't have to wade through baby-shower bullshit?
Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 27, 2014 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,843 |
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Dorisan
Understanding the real roots of a wedding or baby shower; that the idea originated long-long-long ago, marking marriage and motherhood as a rite of passage; I have no objection to these ceremonies as long as they are held in the true spirit of marking a major change in that person's life and not merely as a gift grab.
Throughout my entire life, I have been extremely low-income.
I deeply resent that I am expected to subsidize other people's "rite's of passage" with ever more expensive gifts, but none of my life choices are celebrated or gifted by any of them.
Years ago, I decided to entirely skip out out of that system which seems entirely rigged on behalf of the breeders.
Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 27, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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Dorisan
Understanding the real roots of a wedding or baby shower; that the idea originated long-long-long ago, marking marriage and motherhood as a rite of passage; I have no objection to these ceremonies as long as they are held in the true spirit of marking a major change in that person's life and not merely as a gift grab.
Throughout my entire life, I have been extremely low-income.
I deeply resent that I am expected to subsidize other people's "rite's of passage" with ever more expensive gifts, but none of my life choices are celebrated or gifted by any of them.
Years ago, I decided to entirely skip out out of that system which seems entirely rigged on behalf of the breeders.
Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 27, 2014 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,829 |
Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 28, 2014 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,441 |
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mr. neptune
Oh, I also heard that for some reason we unmarrieds don't understand, your marriage will last longer if you cancel the honeymoon. That would save a lot there, but Why would that make any difference?
Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 28, 2014 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,308 |
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yurble
Probably something to do with starting off on a firmer financial footing and with realistic expectations of what marriage consists of (hint: it's not all big fancy weddings and romantic honeymoons, but some supposed adults can't get beyond thinking they're in a fucking Disney movie). This is not to say that all people who go on honeymoons have unrealistic expectations, but I expect that a much larger percentage of them do, compared to people who don't bother with them. There are probably zero pampered delusional prince(sse)s who willingly skip the honeymoon.
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Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 29, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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Shiny
I swore off babby showers after the last atrocity I attended. Not even if it's my closest friend. Unless it's co-ed and there is free-flowing liquor. But being trapped in a room flooded with womben squealing over unremarkable miniature clothes, telling disgusting birth stories, and dealing with nearly a dozen screaming, ill-behaved children for three hours? No. I will sooner remove and eat my own fingernails. And the games . . . THE GAMES!
Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 29, 2014 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,654 |
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Dorisan
My last job, half the people were under 30, getting married and popping babies. That meant mandatory showers, held at work. At least they were held in conjunction with our monthly meetings, so we got paid overtime, but you couldn't get out of them and had to least make a gesture of contributing a few bucks.
Re: Don't You Ignore the Babby Shower Gift Registry!!! April 29, 2014 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 880 |