Teens have baby to feel loved

I sometimes come across people. Mostly Teens saying that how they never get loved by anyone and they are lonly. So what's their solution: To get knocked up and have a baby to proved that she will get loved by someone - baby.

I am thinking that why the hell to these teensluts are so worried about getting loved or be lonely?

To be loved you have to earn it or get a boyfriend. Go out and make friends or socialise. Not have a f-trophy to prove to be loved.

I don't get loved by anyone and I am lonely and I don't give a crap. I am not having a loaf to prove a point.

What's with these teens these days. What make these teens so dawn sure that the baby will love the moo when it grows up? Chances are that the kid will hate the moo when it grows anyway.

I don't buy this excuse.

I grew up in a dysfunctional family, I was very lonely for many years, but I didn't go out and get knocked up.

I always have preferred to be alone and can be rather anti-social as far as yearning to participate in group things or do "girly girl" things like shopping or going out to lunch, ie; "normal" and socially expected stuff. I can't ever remember having been lonely. Most people I know have smothered me to death at one time or another in my life by demanding too much from me emotionally or attempting to stake a claim on too much of my time. I can't imagine purposely creating a human being who was dependent on me, clinging, needy, etc.....and being FORCED to give beyond what I am comfortably capable, just to get some sort of whacky "unconditional" love. What they fail to realize is that ALL love should be unconditional and that once that kyd is no longer dependent upon them for it's very sustenance, he may just choose NOT to love them like they need or want. If, and more than likely when this happens, then what do they have left?

I guess that's one reason they keep having baybees, to get back that original feeling of "unconditional love", which sounds like an addiction of sorts to me. They keep having more to get back the "high" and more and end up being left with great big unhealthy messes.

kidlesskim Wrote:
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> I always have preferred to be alone and can be
> rather anti-social as far as yearning to
> participate in group things or do "girly girl"
> things like shopping or going out to lunch, ie;
> "normal" and socially expected stuff. I can't ever
> remember having been lonely. Most people I know
> have smothered me to death at one time or another
> in my life by demanding too much from me
> emotionally or attempting to stake a claim on too
> much of my time. I can't imagine purposely
> creating a human being who was dependent on me,
> clinging, needy, etc.....and being FORCED to give
> beyond what I am comfortably capable, just to get
> some sort of whacky "unconditional" love. What
> they fail to realize is that ALL love should be
> unconditional and that once that kyd is no longer
> dependent upon them for it's very sustenance, he
> may just choose NOT to love them like they need or
> want. If, and more than likely when this happens,
> then what do they have left?
>
> I guess that's one reason they keep having
> baybees, to get back that original feeling of
> "unconditional love", which sounds like an
> addiction of sorts to me. They keep having more to
> get back the "high" and more and end up being left
> with great big unhealthy messes.

Not to mention a train tunnel for a cunt, with lips that hang like a pair of goddamn beagle ears...

That is such BS. I was extremely lonely when I was a kid...mostly because my mother refused to let me out of the house out of fear I'd become a drug addict. I never felt the need to have a baby to feel "loved". I knew I was loved...by my family, my very few friends whom I only saw at school, and by my cats. I knew I could expect unconditional love from these individuals. Babies don't know how to love - they know how to depend, so the argument that "I needz a baybee to lurves meh!" is completely illogical. Children are affectionate to the people who feed and clothe them so those people will continue clothing and feeding. If a parent stopped doing that, the child would latch onto someone else because the child doesn't know how to love - they simply want their needs met and the resulting 0.5-second hug or half-hearted giggle is often misconstrued by parents as being a sign of love.

Actually, babies are FAR too young to love back.

Instead, they demand all love, attention, and EVERYTHING 24/7.

No wonder they're called "soul suckers" and those poor, dumb teen moos ended up falling prey to those parasites while seeking unconditional love!

It's possible it's more about wanting to feel needed than loved, which would explain the empty nester syndrome. If that's the case it's even worse because there are endless, selfless, and constructive things they could do to feel needed. Creating a human being who they can neither afford nor have the level of maturity necessary to raise properly only leads to disaster for both of them and everyone around them. These purposeful teen moos and the teen moo wannabees are especially ignorant and selfish little skanks.

I think a lot of moos, not just teens, do this. My GF had a fertility kyd w/ an awful man. Her marriage is crumbling faster than ever before. No surprise to me, of course, but I bite my tongue.

I was suspicious and has not been confirmed, she wanted this baby, because she has 'no family', they were horrible to her when she was younger, and basically has few friends. She thinks this kyd will love her forever and be her family. What a heavy weight to put on that kyd's shoulders, huh? Not to mention, like many moos, past and present, they want the 'family obligation' of the love "owed" to a mother for the rest of their lives, not the love and friendship one EARNS of being involved in a typical relationship or friendship.

I like her for other reasons, but this is so sad and pathetic if you ask me.

Needy, insecure, low self-esteem.

They really should go get themselves some help before embarking on parenthood.

People who want unconditional love should get a dog.

Sereyna Wrote:
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> People who want unconditional love should get a
> dog.


spare the dogs and cats...

I think breeders make the worst pet owners, here is an ad i am posting on Craigslist to find a home for an abanded dog................(notice where i knock breeders)




Please read this entire ad before responding.


We have a 3-4 year old female Pit bull, she is fixed and has all of her shots, she is very shy, but once she gets comfortable with you, she loves you. She loves playing with stuffed animals. She is an amazing dog!!

My wife works for a vet and some asshole, dropped her off and never came back for her, this was over 5 months ago, we take her home from the vet to give her time to run and play out of the cage, We have 3 dogs so we cant keep her.

We are going to be VERY picky on who gets her. We are very unimpressed at the animal owner ship here in Georgia. We are going to charge $75.00 rehoming fee (even though we have much more than that in her) This fee is to eliminate a lot of the ”fly by night” dog owners.

I paid $100.00 rehoming fee for my dog 10 years ago, so it averages $10.00 per year for so much joy, it’s a bargain. If you have a problem with this, MOVE ON!


She needs a FOREVER home, she needs to be an inside dog, she must be the only dog, NO KIDS (and not because she’s aggressive its because I get sick of all the lame, fake excuses people give for giving up their pets because “oh im pregnant AGAIN, or “my son left the front door open and she got out and hit by a car” IF you have a problem with this MOVE ON!

If your asking, “how can I be so picky to find her the perfect home”? BECAUSE I CAN AND WILL, Im NOT desperate to get rid of her, YES, I cant keep her, BUT I will keep her as long as it takes to get her the perfect FOREVER home!

I will also need to visit your home to see that you have a fenced yard, no kids and your not a renter, YOU MUST OWN THE HOME! NO APARTMENTS

Im sure I will get a lot of nasty emails for this posting, I DON’T CARE, I am committed to finding this amazing, lovable dog the perfect forever home.

And those of you who are true animal lovers (very rare here in GA) you will understand my post.

Thank You

Nokyds, nice craigslist ad!
Good luck!

"It truly is the one commonality that every designation of humans you can think of has, there's at least one asshole."
--Me

Feh thanks, i know the ad sounds harsh, but the town i am in is an animal abusing shit hole, i feel i need to be direct and blunt to get this dog a good home

The ad is not harsh, I love it!! It's to the point and let's people know that you ain't takin' any shit and only want the best for this dog. Too bad everyone isn't more selective when rehoming an animal. I hope the people that abandoned her rot in misery.

I'm sure there is some breeder, somewhere, who's pweshus widdle feewings are hurt over the ad. Oh well, sucks to be them. Breeders really do make the WORST pet owners.

Please DO keep us posted on all the juicy replies you get on this one!!! LOL

KidFreeLuvnLife Wrote:
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> The ad is not harsh, I love it!! It's to the
> point and let's people know that you ain't takin'
> any shit and only want the best for this dog. Too
> bad everyone isn't more selective when rehoming an
> animal. I hope the people that abandoned her rot
> in misery.
>
> I'm sure there is some breeder, somewhere, who's
> pweshus widdle feewings are hurt over the ad. Oh
> well, sucks to be them. Breeders really do make
> the WORST pet owners.
>
> Please DO keep us posted on all the juicy replies
> you get on this one!!! LOL


lol i will keep you posted, the town i live in is 8,000 people, they put 50-100 animals to sleep each week,( the reason i know this is, i groom alot of the SPCA employees dogs and became friends with some of them)

there are strays everywhere, I cant keep up with helping them all, its very fucked up and very sad, BUT in a town of 8000 people, we have a church every 2 blocks, YIPEEEEEE, bible kooks treating animals this way!!! its amazing, its the main reason im leaving,

My sister in law works at the spca in florida where i came from, they have a total of 7 animals in their shelter right now and that town is about 5 times larger than where i live now, they put ZERO to sleep, because they have very little strays,
, Its a whole different world in Georgia

Our old 16 year old dog died in late August. 2 weeks ago, we adopted a gorgeous 4 year old shep mix from the same shelter we got our old doggie from all those years ago.

That shelter is AWESOME. They are a no-kill shelter and are constantly over-run with animals. It's sad but they do a great job.

I don't think it's a harsh ad at all and hopefully it will weed out the undesirables who want a new doggie for their toadler to abuse, only to toss aside later on.