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Would Morgane advise women to tell their children if they regretted having them? “I feel that telling them would be the best option. It’s not because you don’t love them. Children can get on your nerves and they really just think about themselves. I never felt unwanted by my mum. At all.”
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How can anyone know whether they’ll be a good parent, whether they’ll love it or hate it, or both? All the mothers I talked to had planned their pregnancies, and yet every one of them was full of regret – a feeling they had never anticipated.
Re: Parental Regret February 13, 2017 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 951 |
The same for me.Quote
I'd rather regret NOT having kids, which I don't at all, than regret having them.
So much truth in that. I am glad that I am here on this board.Quote
There is no shortage of tales of parental regret online, either on message boards or in the media, yet every single retard out there sticks their fingers in their ears and assumes that those terrible things won't happen to them when they have kids. Their lives will be different. Their kids will sleep through the night. Their marriage will still be happy and intact. Their sex lives will continue to be great. They won't be broke. Because those bad things only happen to other people, but it won't happen to them.
We need to stop shoving it down everyone's throats that having kids is "just what you do when you grow up," that you're not a real or complete adult until you breed and that parenthood is the most wonderful and fulfilling thing you can ever do in life. Tell it like it is for fucking once: being a parent SUCKS and it will not be any different for you than it was for your best friend who shat a loaf and now drinks herself to sleep every night because she hates her kid.