1)"Any other boob obsessed kids out there?
My almost 5 year old has become boob obsessed. She is constantly trying to touch my breast all day long. She will snuggle up to me and start to rub my breast and trigger this very yuck feeling. She thinks it's really funny. She has discovered her own nipples and will rub and pinch them frequently.The word "nipple" comes out of her mouth 8 million times a day, sometimes completely out of context.
Please reassure me that this is normal and will pass. It's making me nuts! Could these be signs that I am putting to much pressure on her to wean? (Oh, please no. I'm being so gentle.)"
(NO, she isn't putting ENOUGH pressure on her. She should have weaned this little monstor which she have created YEARS ago. It's utterly ridiculous for a 5 y/o to be doing this shit.)
2)".., my son who nursed until the week of his 5th birthday still reaches down my shirt sometimes to feel my breasts and especially at night likes to put his face by my boobs. he is now almost 7. i think he just has a good relationship with my body and me and takes comfort in being close to the source of what was his nourishment and love for so long....."
("especially at NIGHT"? "his hands down her shirt", feeling her up? I suppose he still co sleeps. I am sorry, but at age SEVEN a boy should NOT have a "relationship" with his mother's body)
3)"One of my boys went through a long stretch of being boob obsessed and it finally seems to be winding down..... Just before he turned 4, he decided started patting and groping my breasts and saying "Gugga". When it started at home, I thought it was really sweet. Then he did it in public. I was mortified. I don't think there is any thing wrong with it, but the public lack of knowledge about EN(extended nursing) and the average person's view of breast as sexual objects worried me that someone might think there was something inappropriate going on with us........ It is sad that I feel I have to curtail my LO's natural love of my breasts based on what society thinks, but I didn't see any other option."
mom2threenurslings
(Well, if you insist on being a perv, perhaps peer pressure will "curtail" you from exposing the rest of us to your strange fetish', and "Gugga"? What IS this kyd, a caveman?)
5)"It might not stop at weaning. Sorry. My kids have long since weaned and they still love my breasts. My daughter comes up and SNIFFS them multiple times a day.I often let them know that I feel like it's an invasion of my personal space and hug them instead. They usually knock it off when I ask."
(The kyd SNIFFS her tits? OMFG that's gross as hell)
6)Her boob obsession is making me gag. I am doing CLW, and tandeming with her 3 mo. old brother. When he nurses, it is just so sweet, but when she has the kind of day (like today) where ALL she wants to do is fondle and twiddle, and nurse, it makes me want to BARF. I seriously tried all day to tell her that this is my body, and to please stop. I stood up, I walked away, I redirected, I offered substitutes, I read all the books in the house to her, I tried to feed her tomatoes from the garden...I finally burst into tears! Then she pats me on the arm and tells me its ok, not to cry...and tries to fondle me again! When my DH got home I handed the kids over and locked myself in our room.....
I am seriously at the point of cold turkey with her, and she can CIO."
("At the point"? That kyd should have been weaned and left to CIO a long long long time ago)
7)"Dd, almost 4, is all about them. Wants to feel my "soft and pinchy" nipples, snuggle the "nummie" and shoves her hand up the straps or short sleeves over my shoulder and into the chest area, giggling deliriously all the while. Just obsessed with 'em. Sometimes I set a boundary when she's clearly doing it as a test (when my poor mainstream mother is at dinner with us, at a restaurant, for example), and say something like "Please respect my body and give me some space." This is verbage we have discussed before and she knows the context, so usually she's reasonable about it."
(ABSOULTELY ABSURD. She "usuallY" is "reasonable"? She should have no choice and should NOT be reasoned with about this but told NO!!!and often and as sternly as possible)
8)"The creepy feeling is the worst! It can be so hard to want to meet the needs of your child but have to insist on your right to your own body at the same time. I too have had to get up and leave the room to stop my almost 5 year old from groping me. She thinks it's so funny to trigger that "Ahhhh!" feeling. She also does this weird babyish thing sometimes which is just the worst. It is like her baby talk just goes straight to the nursing agitation spot in my brain and triggers all of the uncomfortable feelings I have. It is so much easier to deal with her need to nurse and touch when she relates to me as her almost 5 year old self."
Mama Poot
Banned for talking smutty, sex does not exist on MDC
(This "creepy feeling" she has is nature's way of warning her that this is unnatural and incestuous. The kyd is acting "babyish" because that's how she is treated and allowed to act. Why can't they SEE this?" Oh, I see, the whore was banned for talking "smutty", maybe even THEY think she is a pervert)
9)"I've lost count of how many times a day Henri nurses. Its at least 8, maybe 10 or more depending on millions of things (is he sick, hungry, tired, bored, getting picked on by Paddy, etc etc) He has no qualms about feeling me up, or rubbing his hands up and down my arms, stroking my face, it really gets to be too much-I'm not even that touchy feely with DH! Then he gets really excited and shouts "Milky! Mama milk!" jumps up and down, runs around, tackles me and stuffs his face into my breasts. Oh and any attractive woman with large cleavage he sees on television is "Mama". (which is weird because my boobs are average and I don't consider myself to be attractive, but boobs=mama) So far he only refers to them as "milky", and I'm hoping he doesn't pick up any cutesie words like "boobies" or "titties" or anything equally obnoxious"
( I have no words which could adequately depict my disgust for this one)
10)"`It's driving me crazy! Seemingly, she cannot stop herself- I see the gleam in her eye before she does it. I have trouble cuddling with her without her try to touch my breasts and that's what bothers me the most. I miss the closeness with her, but I cannot handle the unwelcome touching. And yes, she tries to touch me in public too, especially when she is uncomfortable. Redirecting does not work. She is obsessed."
(Ridiculous and completely unnecessary. If the touching is "unwelcome" then she should put an IMMEDIATE stop to it, yesterday)
While all of these are unbelievably disgusting, I think that #6 where the kyd's unwanted advances sends moomie running to her room in tears, and #9 with pervert in training/sexual predator in the making/future rapist "Henri", tie for first place in the gross and completely unnecessary category. These women need to take a step back, look at the situation, and put a STOP to this nonsense while there still may be a chance for their kyds to act normal. Since they are 4-7 years old and pulling this shit, it may already be too late. One day "Henri" may very well be an anti-social sexist pig at best, or a serial rapist at worst.