MerlynHerne Wrote:
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> This shit needs to be stopped! It's the height of
> idiocy,and self-centeredness to be having baybees
> past the age of menopause! If you didn't have them
> when everything was working, you shouldn't be
> allowed to have them once menopause kicks in! But
> for Meo-moos as well as for younger moos, it
> really is all about THEM.
I AGREE! You also made me think of a new term to call menopausal moos;"Meno-Moos". It's bad enough that the younger infertile ones are allowed to do all of this IVF shit and fertility treatments in order to "have one of their own". When will this end? Will great grand Meno-Moos decide at age 75 that they want to start a new famblee and be allowed to artificially get knocked up? This business of older women marrying younger men is part of the problem. These women want to feel young again and the only way that can happen is if time travel where physiological changes occur during the trip to the past is invented. Having a baybee at age 50 will NOT make you look OR feel younger, in fact it will likely have just the opposite effect. If they think stretch marks at age 25 are nasty, when skin is still elastic and has plenty of natural collagen, they need to imagine what their stretch marks and inevitable saggy skin will look like after childbirth at age 50.
I am married to a much younger man and you can bet your ass that this making of grandbrats was discussed UP FRONT to his mother, who up until that point was acting as if I was going to provide her with a grandpup and specifically, a girl grandpup since she already had the golden boy grandbrats. This Moo in law could not care LESS how old I was, the condition of my health, or any risks to MY health which would have been involved NOR did she care (or believe) that her son did NOT want brats. She is just now slowing down making comments to the effect that we might give her a grand brat, but STILL occasionally alludes to the fact that it "might" happen. I have REPEATEDLY reminded her that while I have a fat face and may LOOK younger, I AM FORTY FIVE FUCKING YEARS OLD, nor do WE want kyds. Breeders, like my moo in law, absolutely can not comprehend that their own sons or their wives don't want to self replicate and give them the "precious gift" of a grandbrat.
IF I was a fence sitter, which I am not, she would push me to the CF side simply because of the inevitable personal intrusion by her that sprogging would have on our privacy. I could COUNT ON never having another private moment as she is in CONSTANT contact with the sister in law and her grandbrats on an hourly basis. Her life is CONSUMED with those kyds and interference in her daughter's and SIL's lives; NO THANKS. At least now I can simply not answer her calls or the door should she come a knockin'. Add a grandbrat to the mix and she absolutely would knock the fucking door down, of that I am convinced.