Riiiighhtt, she didn't know that was "wrong". I do not believe that I have ever heard of bribery going on in grade school, regarding parents paying off teachers for special considerations. If their kyd actually can't cut it on his own, will they just continue to pay off high school teachers, then college professors, buy them a certification in their field of specialty after they pay off the test prompter for them to pass state exams or boards, and then BUY them a job as well? If they go that far then they may as well go on ahead and pay people off to become clients, customers, patrons, or patients as well. If this moomie/duddy TRULY thought that the cash was for extra tutoring or whatnot, then they would have and should have asked the teacher if she was available for hire as a private tutor OUTSIDE of and in addition to the classroom. Then, IF she/he accepted, it should have been a competitive wage, not some unmarked bills in a plain envelope.
A parent who attempts (or succeeds) to buy his kyds' way in life is doing that child a GRAVE disservice as well as causing an unfair disadvantage to their kyds' peers, not to even mention the harm which may be caused to potential clients/patients/customers, etc.....due to their kyd's most certain professional incompetence in the future. I would rather have a surgeon who passed his boards with a high C grade on his own merit rather than one who had PEREFECT straight A's across the board, which were bought and paid for by moomie or duddy dearest. What is WRONG with these people?