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Pigs who leave are just interested in one thing: the pussy.
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mercurior
check out this link
http://www.evolutionary-metaphysics.net/evolution_of_humankind.html
some men are closer to the early hominid form, some are a later form.
in a purely, biological sense, running from "defectives", was a good thing millions of years ago. if the genes were "wrong", then the young wouldnt survive. and the male (and female) would look elsewhere for a better genetic match. stronger, faster, smarter.
the men who run in my opinion are closer to these primitive humans. its understandable. but its not right.
all humans are are vessels for passing on dna, a dna's goal is to reproduce. but as humans we can over ride that to some extent some more than others. The ones who breed over and over are actually in my opinion throwbacks to the very primitive forms of us.
i quote "
In the natural world, the number of animals that can survive in an area depends on the amount of food that the land can produce. Numbers may grow until there is no longer enough food to support every animal. Then competition between individuals to satisfy their hunger becomes fierce. Younger animals may not be able to compete against stronger and more experienced ones. The population will be limited by the number of young that can survive long enough to breed.
Some animals develop such strong instinctual affections that they continue to live together in family groups. Groups of animals must compete against nearby groups for food, but animals within each group can often do better by sharing their food with other group members and by cooperating in other ways that help the survival of the young. (it takes a village)
Members of the same group still need to compete against each other. Stronger members will fight to breed with the most desirable partners. When food is scarce, they will muscle each other for the largest share of the meal. Weaker members will compete for the affections of those who can secure them more food and better protection.
For each type of animal, there will be a balance between how much they can cooperate and how much they need to compete against other group members. When conditions change, so will the best balance between competition and cooperation. "
now doesnt that sound like most of these breeders.
and here.
http://www.evolutionary-metaphysics.net/advancing_technology.html
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My 27 outsider cats are loving, cuddly, sweet and docile little purr balls.
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I do agree that guys staying and helping take care of their retards or awwtizztyck snowflakes is the right thing to do, but I can see why they'd want to run for the hills. Normal kids are difficult enough to take care of, and parents tend to look forward to the days when the kid gets out of his or her phases, like pants-shitting and acting like a rotten little brat. When the kid is disabled in some way, those phases might not ever end. And what guy wants to try and control a 17-year-old throwing a toddler tantrum? That's about 8 times the power of a toddler behind that screaming and fit-throwing. And I think a lot of guys just can't deal with the possibility that their little swimmers were half responsible for making their freak-baby (like the giant retard my mom's BF spawned). And as others have said, the guys know sex will be only a fond memory for the rest of his life with Moomie Dearest and Tardleigh to deal with. They probably figure that life's too short to be spent caring for a disabled brat, and so they run off and try the whole life thing again with another woman.
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I have only known a handful of men who were long term hands on caregivers to disabled parents, wives, children, etc......
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On a brain injury/stroke support site where I am a member, when a spouse is injured or has a stroke, the MALE new members always always always seek advice about "how long before she can take care of the kyds again"......"how long before she is just like before?"........or basically questions relating to WHEN she can start doing for them again. Where as when it's the women who ask for advice about the husband, it's more directed to what they can do to help make things easier at home for his recovery, medical questions relating to assisting him however he may end up.
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This is not that odd, have you never heard that rant among women with children which says: "It is always the same, when they (the brats) do something good they are HIS children, when they do something wrong, they are MY children, fuckers". Besides, as someone pointed out, few men are prepared to acknowledge their genes have less than prom king/queen material.
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I have only known a handful of men who were long term hands on caregivers to disabled parents, wives, children, etc......
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On a brain injury/stroke support site where I am a member, when a spouse is injured or has a stroke, the MALE new members always always always seek advice about "how long before she can take care of the kyds again"......"how long before she is just like before?"........or basically questions relating to WHEN she can start doing for them again. Where as when it's the women who ask for advice about the husband, it's more directed to what they can do to help make things easier at home for his recovery, medical questions relating to assisting him however he may end up.
How right you are. I recognise this completely. My great-grandmother bore 13 children, 10 of whom made it to adulthood. She never wanted so many children, but my great-grandfather did, the miserable pig. She was glad to see the back of him when he died around 1950. Twenty years later, she was becoming too elderly to live on her own. She had 8 fully grown children left. Only her daughters and her sons' wives were candidates for unpaid permanent caregiver, obviously. One of her daughters skipped down to live in Florida forever. Another died (good work). My grandmother ensured she and my grandfather sold their big beautiful brick 2-story 4-bedroom victorian home with two large lawns and mature trees in Chicago... to move into a tiny one-bed frame house in the 'burbs with no way in, front or back, without encountering a flight of 10 stairs. My g-gmother's youngest daughter drew the short straw. She had to look after her mother day in, day out, for 15 long years because life was so comfortable my g-gmother lived to 102 years of age. Let it be a warning!
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I have dated all "types" of men over the years and in between my numerous marriages and I have always been attracted to what people might term "nerds". I like the guys who can play chess for hours and lose track of time, are a wiz at card games, can intelligently discuss abstract ideas, and for some reason the computer nerd types are overwhelmingly attracted to me as well, although I am not particularly proficient in binary lingo. I have discovered a few things in that time about men (and what I like and don't) and those are that:
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but you can see how a lot of these men and women go for the looks, rather than the mind or heart
male strippers, and models, female strippers and models. unfortunatly a lot of people buy into the superficial (its a biologocial throwback to thousands of years ago).
we dont have to be trapped as you know by our biology, or genetics(to some extent). but a few are .