I am sure that my cousin is also known as "Carrie & Julie's mom" rather than by her own name. She is either "what's-his-as$" wife or the kids' moo. She did tell me how nothing is really her own after having her two children yet she keeps it going by allowing her ID to be taken over by that husband as well.
She is also a SAHM so that makes it worse. Sad thing is that this lady has a college eduation and a career before she married and had those babies. For a time, she helped in her husband's medical practice. She says she wants to work part-time in the mornings -- typical moo job. She had asked her husband if he needed help in his office. "No," was his answer. He probably does not even want to be around his wife that much anymore.
It does disgust me how women do this to their lives. She was fortunate to be able to go to university and get a good education on her parents' money. She did not have to bust her a** working while going to school at the same time. Now, she is reduced to taking a low-paying "morning" job somewhere while the sprogs are in school.
I have been looked down upon by someone who used to be close to me (still there but not "close" any longer) because I have no real education except certification from a vocational school for a job I used to do. It took only two weeks for my certificate and then the license. Person who said this to me also did not have to work while getting his degree. It is very easy to look down on someone else when one had an easier time of it.
I may be considered "uneducated" to certain people but - at least - I don't depend on a man, work full-time, take care of myself, and have my own life.