Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 17, 2010 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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larious I hate to sound like the old fashioned fart that I am, but when I was that age and a girl got knocked up, which by the way was quite rare in comparison to now, there were 3 options. 1)Abortion 2)Go away to an unwed moo school and give it up for adoption or 3)Get married It was NOT ALLOWED to come to school "showing" and NO ONE openly talked about whatever option that they had chosen either, that is if the pregnancy was ever known about in the first place. That might be sexist and out dated, but at least we didn't have mooternity cheerleader outfits, belly photo ops at the prom, and a day care center at the high school. MISTAKES weren't glorified like they are now and flashed about to taint the underclassmen.
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 17, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,441 |
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I think that world has been gone for at least 20 years, Dorisan and Kim, since I know that in my school, in the 90s, there were already girls going about high school nonchalantly pregnant. Some managed to have more than one child by the time they finished school (one girl had 3). Since the town was full of fundies, there was a lot of anti-abortion attitude, yet at the same time none of them seemed to think that giving the baby up for adoption was a good idea. Some of these women are now grandmothers...
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 17, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,441 |
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Wait, so they don't encourage premarital sex, but they also don't allow married students?
The fundies where I lived were opposed to premarital sex, of course, but it was sort of a slap-on-the-wrist sort of response compared to how they felt about abortion. The pregnant girls at school were almost viewed as good, because it was obvious that they hadn't had abortions.
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 17, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 8,402 |
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I think that world has been gone for at least 20 years, Dorisan and Kim, since I know that in my school, in the 90s, there were already girls going about high school nonchalantly pregnant. Some managed to have more than one child by the time they finished school (one girl had 3). Since the town was full of fundies, there was a lot of anti-abortion attitude, yet at the same time none of them seemed to think that giving the baby up for adoption was a good idea. Some of these women are now grandmothers...
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 17, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,441 |
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NOT in that area, which in addition to being a fundie mecca, it also has a big self righteous population. The alleged reasoning behind the "no marriage" is that they are underage The legal age to marry in Alabama is 18 and the school is k-12. Even though there may be few 18 year old seniors, it's common knowledge(in that area) that a student attending a college prep school would ONLY be getting married at that age due to having been knocked up, which of course means that they had premarital sex which is a no no. If they even FIND OUT that someone had been pregnant or did the knocking up, expulsion is immediate. Their rules state in the very beginning that they reserve the right to not accept for enrollment, to discontinue enrollment, or to expel for ANY reason, which could be (AND HAS BEEN)based on a rumor.
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Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 17, 2010 |
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Oh for crying out loud! How many boys DID she sleep with anyway? That girl LOOKS at least 20 years old and the boys look like 7th graders, which I suppose that they were at the time! So, I guess this is just another case of teen pregnancy and a "who da daddy" game. It's hysterical that the moo of the slut claims that her wittle girl was a "virgin" before she met this Alfie kid. This is shameful and the little bitch(and the boy too) look so PROOOWWDD and puffed out like a peacock. This kinda shit makes me sick.
It's sick, but I can't help but laugh a little. The girl sounds like the town pump, though her mum insists that nothing could have happened because of the size of her bedroom and narrowness of the bed. Errrr .. lady .. ya never heard of kids being conceived in the back seat of a car?
And that poor Alfie. Honestly. He talks about "being good" as in "I guess if I'm good, and promise to take care of the baby, Mum won't force me to eat brussell sprouts."
And the rest of those boys ... "Locals heard his gleeful brother Jake, 17, running up and down the street outside their council house after Maisie was born. He was yelling: "My brother's sh***** Chantelle. He could be the dad."
Is that the modern version of "Alfie and Chantelle, sitting in a tree - K.I.S.S.I.N.G" changed to "F.U.C.K.I.N.G"?
Maybe the Mayan prophecies of 2012 ought to be true. The human race -- we are doomed.
larious I hate to sound like the old fashioned fart that I am, but when I was that age and a girl got knocked up, which by the way was quite rare in comparison to now, there were 3 options. 1)Abortion 2)Go away to an unwed moo school and give it up for adoption or 3)Get married It was NOT ALLOWED to come to school "showing" and NO ONE openly talked about whatever option that they had chosen either, that is if the pregnancy was ever known about in the first place. That might be sexist and out dated, but at least we didn't have mooternity cheerleader outfits, belly photo ops at the prom, and a day care center at the high school. MISTAKES weren't glorified like they are now and flashed about to taint the underclassmen. Now, there is NO incentive to not get knocked up in high school because it's "cool": and you can still make homecoming court if you are 8 months INpig and the PTA will throw you a fucking baybee shower.
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 18, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,441 |
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there were pregnant girls in school in the 80's here, bragging about it. we don't have "fundies" much here.
So they're not morally opposed to it, and they still won't get abortions? What's wrong with people?
cumberland county is a huge welfare district.
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 18, 2010 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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I think that world has been gone for at least 20 years, Dorisan and Kim
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I think that world has been gone for at least 20 years, Dorisan and Kim
And I'm ambivalent about that. I certainly don't think that getting pregnant so young, with the father typically taking a powder, is a good thing, but the means used at that time to suppress the problem - shame - didn't accomplish much.
Maybe because I was always the one on the straight and narrow path, but my thoughts always ranged to "can't they use their brains? what a stupid thing to do!" Just call me Logical
I remember the discussion we young women had in our junior year, after seeing how a fellow class member totally f* up her life having a baby at 17. It was almost as if we were attending a wake and mourning her passing: "boy, she would have had a great life. Her sister moved to Washington, DC and got a job; she was going to let Laura (preggo) come stay with her after she graduated. Laura was so smart, I bet she would have had a chance to really make something of herself - in Washington, DC. Can you imagine?" Living in a podunk town in northwest Arkansas, the chance to move away and live in a place like Washington, DC was nearly beyond our ability to imagine. Yet, that girl threw it all away for a few tickles in the back seat of some doofus' Trans Am.
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 18, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,441 |
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I think that world has been gone for at least 20 years, Dorisan and Kim
And I'm ambivalent about that. I certainly don't think that getting pregnant so young, with the father typically taking a powder, is a good thing, but the means used at that time to suppress the problem - shame - didn't accomplish much.
Maybe because I was always the one on the straight and narrow path, but my thoughts always ranged to "can't they use their brains? what a stupid thing to do!" Just call me Logical
I remember the discussion we young women had in our junior year, after seeing how a fellow class member totally f* up her life having a baby at 17. It was almost as if we were attending a wake and mourning her passing: "boy, she would have had a great life. Her sister moved to Washington, DC and got a job; she was going to let Laura (preggo) come stay with her after she graduated. Laura was so smart, I bet she would have had a chance to really make something of herself - in Washington, DC. Can you imagine?" Living in a podunk town in northwest Arkansas, the chance to move away and live in a place like Washington, DC was nearly beyond our ability to imagine. Yet, that girl threw it all away for a few tickles in the back seat of some doofus' Trans Am.
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 18, 2010 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |
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It seems that it has been acceptable for at least 20 years to get knocked up and go to school...I'm not saying that I find it fathomable why anyone would want that, but some clearly do. I wouldn't want to go back to the past, when the girl was shamed but the boy wasn't, but it would be nice if the entire thing weren't glorified, but just seen as a stupid thing to do.
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 18, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 721 |
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What with women fucking their husbands while their kids are sleeping in the same bed, to letting their udders flap in the breeze, to some woman breastfeeding her dad, why in the hell should this surprise me?
Re: Attachment sleeping? How about attachment *bathing*? October 19, 2010 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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That sounds about right in the area where I went to school too in that it started it's descent at the end of the late 1980's in public schools. However, in that area (South Central Alabama, USA)in the cites there is a huge array of private schools that are generally Christian "academies" where that kind of shit is STILL not allowed, ironically. Not only do they still preach abstinence only as THE only birth control option. they have a "rule" that upon learning of a student pregnancy IMMEDIATE EXPULSION is mandatory and a complete "investigation" gets underway. If it can be determined who the guilty boy is then he too is expelled(which is refreshing). They of course do NOT believe in abortion, so they "counsel" the girl to have the baby and either raise it(or her parents will likely raise it) or place it for adoption. There IS no going to school knocked up.
They also have a NO SEX rule and encourage tattle telling. Having sex is a violation and punishment can include expulsion. In addition, if a student is aware that another student is having sex and doesn't report it, then HE/SHE is subject to the same punitive guidelines. In the public schools and the non religious private schools, it's the same as everywhere else. You'll see more belly rubbing going on within the walls of the schools than you do book bags and there is NO shame in it either anymore. I knew of two girls in high school who left school to have babies and adopt out, one who was a senior who actually married her boyfriend and quit school, and there were NUMEROUS girls who were rumored to have aborted, but NONE of it was talked about much.
From the 2010-2011 handbook
http://www.alabamachristian.com/docs/handbooksec.pdf
"Alabama Christian Academy is a family oriented institution. Students accepted for admission to ACA are bound by the standards, regulations and requirements of the school even at school-related functions, whether on or off campus. ALL PARENTS AND STUDENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR KNOWING AND ABIDING BY THE STANDARDS, REGULATIONS AND REQUIREMENTS OF THIS HANDBOOK. It is strongly suggested that parents lead their children by setting an appropriate standard of compliance.
In line with its Christian philosophy, the Academy strongly encourages parent-school communication and cooperation and upholds a firm and consistent yet fair code of student discipline and behavior. The development of personal responsibility is a major goal for our students. ACA holds firm to its strong stand against smoking, gambling, drinking, premarital sex, and substance abuse. The Academy does not allow the enrollment and/or attendance of students who have been married, have had children, have been pregnant, or have impregnated. Student behavior, on or off campus, which is illicit, immoral, illegal, and/or which reflects adversely on Alabama Christian Academy could cause immediate expulsion.
The school does not sponsor, endorse, nor encourage dances. A Jr.-Sr. banquet is held each year.
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there were pregnant girls in school in the 80's here, bragging about it. we don't have "fundies" much here.
So they're not morally opposed to it, and they still won't get abortions? What's wrong with people?
cumberland county is a huge welfare district.
Oh, so stupid, lazy, and entitlement-minded.