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It's your mom April 13, 2014 |
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She is still your mother...jesus christ dude...
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Cuz it's still his mother !!! Both my parents are alcoholic drunks .. and wasn't dealt the best hand in life. but I could never hate them . Because they made me , and I will forever be thankful for that . Forgive her , and don't ever let her occupy your mind with all the bad things she did .
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She is your mother. The one that gave you life.... Don't flush her ashes down the toilet...maybe you'l feel ok with it for a few years....but one day you'l wake up and realise the huge mistake you did and you will be powerless to fix it. As flurk1997 said. Keep the ashes a few years...or if you don't want...just spread her ashes as se requested and you'l be done with it but in the long run at least you will not have anything to feel sorry about...
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At the end of the day she's still the woman that brought you into the world.. My mother had an addiction problem and I suffered for 13 slow years before she died.. I hated her doing it when she was alive, but god did I miss her when she was gone. I spread her ashes where she asked me to and I find it hard to hold any grudges for what she did to herself and her family. She pushed everyone away and made people suffer, but I can forgive that now and had the decency to carry out her final wishes
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Meth head or not. She's still your mom who doesn't deserve being flushed down the toilet. But that's just my opinion.
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Ita still your mother, maybe she was not the best. But she still brought you till this world. Behind that meth problem she problably loves you and your siblings very much. So flushing her down the toilet would be pathetic.
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Re: It's your mom April 13, 2014 |
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hana
My only reaction is don't flush the ashes it might fuck up the plumbing, but I understand why.
Crapping out a loaf doesn't turn moo in to some sort of saint. See no need for the santimonious moomy worship, and no need to abide by her final wishes.
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Re: It's your mom April 15, 2014 |
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me
Look at all those asshats that think that just because they share genes he owes her any respect. Since she alienated all of her family and she was a meth head we can easily say that she was a crappy mother and a shittier human being. OP didn't ask to be born and certainly he doesn't owe anything to that drug addict. So you should better shove you self-righteousness deep in your ass.
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idiot
He doesn't "owe" her respect. Flushing her ashes down the toilet would make him just bad as she was. You just sound like a petulant, angry child.
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me
Yeah, because throwing a bunch of inanimate ashes is the same as lying, neglecting and abusing your children, idiot.
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idiot
It's an extremely revealing aspect of someone's character that he's going to try to "get back" at her by flushing her ashes down the toilet because he's too much of a coward to confront her. If you think you have a right to defile someone's remains because they were a drug addict then you are beyond reason. Also judging from your use of vocabulary, I'm going to assume you're incapable of forming intelligent opinions.
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You seem to be the one incapable of forming smart thoughts. Funerals are for the living, not for the dead; he's the one getting closure and that's how he's going to get it. Now, if you think you'll get something talking to a drug addict who drove everyone away; you're either too naive or too stupid. And respecting remains is like respecting a lamp. Inanimate objects don't get offended, so throwing them on the toilet will only have a clogged pipe as a consequence.
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The only thing I can see wrong with it (other than the clogged pipe) is bad karma. If nothing else don't claim the ashes. Even though she was a horrible detestable human who many rejoiced at her passing, doing these things just has a way of coming back and biting one in the ass. Take her ashes if one must claim them because they said they would and scatter them somewhere....give yourself closure and peace knowing you at least kept your word. It doesn't mean s/he cared for her, just that they showed more character and lessened that much hatred and control the bitch had over them. It's continually feeding the hatred, always remembering what was done, never letting go, always letting the bitch have control instead of healing themselves.
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Maybe he could scatter the ashes in appropriate places for druggie moo. Like in the park where the meth heads hang out, skid row, a back alley - places her soul would feel at home. I don't see that as creating bad karma, it does scatter the ashes and it reflects who and what she chose to be in life.
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