You know, I occasionally bitch about "having" to work at my job of 20+ years, but it's just grumbling. I realize how fortunate I am to have a job that challenges my mind.
Even if I won the lottery, I would do something outside the home. I would do SOMETHING that doesn't hinge on my husband or house. This is for emotional fulfillment too. If all I had to do was look after the house and clean it perfectly, I would hyper-focus on stuff like that. Although I love a clean house and I like cleaning my house, housework in the grand scheme of things is unimportant. It is a waste of a good mind. Same with raising the kinder and looking after them. It's mind-numbingly boring.
I want to have interests outside my husband and my home. It keeps me alive as a person that I have MY OWN THING.
I also work for financial reasons. Every man with a SAH wife I've ever known bitches about how she spends money. I think it's human nature to value what YOU want to buy more than another person. For example, I like to grow flowers and it's important for me to pay a little more for organic pest controls, rather than broad spectrum yard products that kill everything. (I feel strongly about not contributing to the environmental mess that we are in.) DH doesn't understand some of my purchases and you know what? He doesn't have to. I can make the decision because I'm paying.
Back to topic, the Moo in the original topic is crazy. I can see juggling one kid or maybe two, but YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL and you certainly can't have FOUR KIDS and expect it not to disrupt your life. WTH was she thinking?
The greatest benefit about being CF is not being interrupted all the time. That includes little things, such as when I am reading a book, or staying late at work to fix a problem, and it applies to big issues. I'd hate to leave a job that I loved and interrupt contributing to MY PENSION and MY retirement for some stupid crotch turd. Ugh.