Ohhh, just oopse the guy

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I'm in the same situation, and I'll tell you the solution: just get pregnant. Get what you want out of the relationship because he sure is. He gets all the sex and companionship and warmth a woman offers, and the best years of her life. If you're in love, and you're positive he's in love with you, then just do it. Accidents happen, especially when we really want them to. I don't care who thinks this is sneaky, because I think it's pretty sneaky when men string us along for years and waste our time just to have sex with us and not give us what we want. You could wait too long, not be able to have a baby, and then your husband could leave you for a younger woman who can have kids. I know a woman where this happened. So I'm telling you, if you really want this, then just DO IT. I wish you luck and happiness :-)

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Dorisan
On convincing a husband to start a baby

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I'm in the same situation, and I'll tell you the solution: just get pregnant. Get what you want out of the relationship because he sure is. He gets all the sex and companionship and warmth a woman offers, and the best years of her life. If you're in love, and you're positive he's in love with you, then just do it. Accidents happen, especially when we really want them to. I don't care who thinks this is sneaky, because I think it's pretty sneaky when men string us along for years and waste our time just to have sex with us and not give us what we want. You could wait too long, not be able to have a baby, and then your husband could leave you for a younger woman who can have kids. I know a woman where this happened. So I'm telling you, if you really want this, then just DO IT. I wish you luck and happiness :-)

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It's all about MEEEEEE
I have the same problem with my husband. We haven't been married that long yet, but I am ready to be a mommy. He's just being selfish and he is afraid to make a commitment. He says lets just enjoy married life and all that stuff. We were living together for a long time before, so the only difference now is we are wearing rings to prove it. so i don't think that is a very good excuse, not to me. So i have decided i will do it on my own. i know that once i have a baby he will be happy and love it. he is just a huge procrastinator. so i am going to stop taking the pill.he doesn't use condoms anymore so it'll work. i quit taking it the middle of the month, and i am on my period now so as soon as i get off we'll have sex like always and hopefully in a week or so i will consive. it's terrible to be so sneaky but i want a baby and he doesn't care...he is just worried about himself.

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bell_flower
These two winners are a disgrace to the female gender. Here's hoping they are both hopelessly infertile.

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nokids4me
Honestly if a someone's a PNB and they're with someone who doesn't want kids, they'll have the fucking sense to break it off and pair off with another PNB. If they're oopsing someone, they pretty much have moved themselves into the category of assholes who should be sterilized.

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Sorceress
The whole attitude is as if they are adversaries trying to screw each other over (pun intended). This perpetuates the idea that men are our enemy and we are being victimized and violated. I am sick to death of it. If you're letting some guy fuck you then you have to take responsibility for YOUR actions. If you want kids and he doesn't, why are you still fucking him and then being pissy because he doesn't want kids? Oh wait. These cows thought they would "change him" with their looooove. That's what all the stupidest women think. And most all of those are divorced or dumped.

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bell_flower
These two winners are a disgrace to the female gender. Here's hoping they are both hopelessly infertile.

Honestly, I hope these two die in a car wreck and take their clandestine loaves into Hell with them. What they are doing ought to be criminal, and even if it's not, it's still horribly wrong. I feel awful for the poor bastard who has no idea what's about to happen to him. Nauseating.

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So i have decided i will do it on my own. i know that once i have a baby he will be happy and love it. he is just a huge procrastinator. so i am going to stop taking the pill. he doesn't use condoms anymore so it'll work. i quit taking it the middle of the month, and i am on my period now so as soon as i get off we'll have sex like always and hopefully in a week or so i will consive. it's terrible to be so sneaky but i want a baby and he doesn't care...he is just worried about himself.

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yurble
Can you put this woman in the car, too?

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So i have decided i will do it on my own. i know that once i have a baby he will be happy and love it. he is just a huge procrastinator. so i am going to stop taking the pill. he doesn't use condoms anymore so it'll work. i quit taking it the middle of the month, and i am on my period now so as soon as i get off we'll have sex like always and hopefully in a week or so i will consive. it's terrible to be so sneaky but i want a baby and he doesn't care...he is just worried about himself.

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the noodler
List of Personality Flaws that would make for a Bad Baby Daddy:

Huge Procrastinator

• Doesn't have a job, any desire to have a job, or any interest in being a SAHD
• Addictive personality
• Previous spawned, neglects offspring

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Dorisan
On convincing a husband to start a baby

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I'm in the same situation, and I'll tell you the solution: just get pregnant. Get what you want out of the relationship because he sure is. He gets all the sex and companionship and warmth a woman offers, and the best years of her life. If you're in love, and you're positive he's in love with you, then just do it. Accidents happen, especially when we really want them to. I don't care who thinks this is sneaky, because I think it's pretty sneaky when men string us along for years and waste our time just to have sex with us and not give us what we want. You could wait too long, not be able to have a baby, and then your husband could leave you for a younger woman who can have kids. I know a woman where this happened. So I'm telling you, if you really want this, then just DO IT. I wish you luck and happiness :-)

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yurble

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marco polo

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bell_flower
These two winners are a disgrace to the female gender. Here's hoping they are both hopelessly infertile.

Honestly, I hope these two die in a car wreck and take their clandestine loaves into Hell with them. What they are doing ought to be criminal, and even if it's not, it's still horribly wrong. I feel awful for the poor bastard who has no idea what's about to happen to him. Nauseating.

Can you put this woman in the car, too?

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So i have decided i will do it on my own. i know that once i have a baby he will be happy and love it. he is just a huge procrastinator. so i am going to stop taking the pill. he doesn't use condoms anymore so it'll work. i quit taking it the middle of the month, and i am on my period now so as soon as i get off we'll have sex like always and hopefully in a week or so i will consive. it's terrible to be so sneaky but i want a baby and he doesn't care...he is just worried about himself.

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Melanie
Aside from the other excellent points you all have made, this clearly demonstrates that the pigs have absolutely ZERO, and I mean ZERO, care or consideration for the fate of the children they are so hell-bent to conceive.

Life is chancy enough even with a loving, committed, enthusiastic father and parents in a halfway decent marriage -- setting up a child for a life with a reluctant, resentful, foot-dragging and ambivalent sperm donor who probably won't stick around, or will only be half-present, is immoral and obscene. I can't even think of pejoratives extreme enough to suit these slovenly cunts, really.

These bitches don't want to be "mothers" they want to be pregnant. Because they are such vapid and paltry people they can't see an identity for themselves beyond performing the most basic biological process. Becoming educated, seeing the world, finding a productive or meaningful or creative occupation -- nah, just lie, cheat and sacrifice any claim to being a person of worth or character by tricking someone so you can do what a gerbil does.

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We haven't been married that long yet, but I am ready to be a mommy. He's just being selfish and he is afraid to make a commitment. He says lets just enjoy married life and all that stuff. We were living together for a long time before, so the only difference now is we are wearing rings to prove it. so i don't think that is a very good excuse, not to me.

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Melanie
Aside from the other excellent points you all have made, this clearly demonstrates that the pigs have absolutely ZERO, and I mean ZERO, care or consideration for the fate of the children they are so hell-bent to conceive.

Life is chancy enough even with a loving, committed, enthusiastic father and parents in a halfway decent marriage -- setting up a child for a life with a reluctant, resentful, foot-dragging and ambivalent sperm donor who probably won't stick around, or will only be half-present, is immoral and obscene. I can't even think of pejoratives extreme enough to suit these slovenly cunts, really.

These bitches don't want to be "mothers" they want to be pregnant. Because they are such vapid and paltry people they can't see an identity for themselves beyond performing the most basic biological process. Becoming educated, seeing the world, finding a productive or meaningful or creative occupation -- nah, just lie, cheat and sacrifice any claim to being a person of worth or character by tricking someone so you can do what a gerbil does.

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Melanie
Aside from the other excellent points you all have made, this clearly demonstrates that the pigs have absolutely ZERO, and I mean ZERO, care or consideration for the fate of the children they are so hell-bent to conceive.

Life is chancy enough even with a loving, committed, enthusiastic father and parents in a halfway decent marriage -- setting up a child for a life with a reluctant, resentful, foot-dragging and ambivalent sperm donor who probably won't stick around, or will only be half-present, is immoral and obscene. I can't even think of pejoratives extreme enough to suit these slovenly cunts, really.

These bitches don't want to be "mothers" they want to be pregnant. Because they are such vapid and paltry people they can't see an identity for themselves beyond performing the most basic biological process. Becoming educated, seeing the world, finding a productive or meaningful or creative occupation -- nah, just lie, cheat and sacrifice any claim to being a person of worth or character by tricking someone so you can do what a gerbil does.

wink I couldn't have said it better!


In addition to that, can these women NOT see they are only sealing their fate into a life of misery when they purposely get knocked up and the man has said, "NO"! I'd get a bit upset if my husband bought a big ticket item that affected us both without my at LEAST having known about it beforehand. A whole human being though? I can't even begin to imagine the anger and hatred that something like that would cultivate! Like Melanie so eloquently states though, it's the kids who will suffer and the pain will come from every angle too. These moo-cunts don't."...... luuuuuv these kids more than anything in the woorrrllld!"™, they love themselves.