I wrote the following post over at Bella reguaring the same exact topic.Before my sibling and I were taking out into public, we were TOLD to be on our best behavior. If we misbehaved, WE WENT HOME. I've seen that happen once, but rarely, bc we were ALWAYS on our best behavior. I'll tell ya, my parents were obviously PNB's and I thank God.
When we were little, my mother didn't take us out much bc she knew we were too little to understand to behave in public. NUMEROUS times we stayed with a babysitter so my parents could have an evening out without us. That is understandable.
I do not care, however, for the lack of parenting on the parenting part. I do not care to see a kid throwing a whopper tantrum and the parent not doing a damn thing. Neither does my very own mother.
I think the parents/breeders p****** and moaning about us is another cut tail sign that they are jealous. They know damn well that us childfree can go anywhere at a tip of the hat without messing/bothering with kids. They use the line of, "they wouldn't know if they were in our shoes," to make us look bad. Having media and society make the childfree look bad is NOTHING new. We are treated as outcasts for one simple decision. The split second someone tells the world they are pregnant, they get, "Congratulations!" even if the baby is made/born out of wedlock. The minute a childfree tells the world, we are bombarded with literal BS. It is almost akin to the same response of someone coming out of the closet to a strict Christian family. Claim you are childfree, you'll have people treat you differently, disown you, treat you as you aren't as important for conversation, ect. It anyone does support the childfree, they are few and in between. In other words, very small in number. That is why we have boards like this where we find other likeminded supporters. Other fellow childfree and I thank God for that.
I lurked on the website, www.bloggingbaby.com mainly because I like to see what a train wreck breeders OH! I mean parents lives are. It is instant birth control. I feel for the good parents out there, the ones who earned the name parent. They have to put up with this [censored] every single time they go out. They probably have to go home with Johnny and Suzy and tell them that the such and such kid’s behavior wasn’t acceptable. For those who do such a wonderful job of parenting like Hello, I’m sorry you have to put up with such c-r-a-p.
For the breeders, OH! I mean parents, anyone can f*** at the wrong time of the month without birth control and wound up pregnant, it’s not rocket science, but not EVERYONE can be a parent based on the appropriate way they raise kids. Rather someone is a parent, like my parents, and they aren’t breeders, or they do a lousy job of parenting, and they earned the right to be called breeders.
Ignorance must be bliss.
lab mom