Yup, that's exactly what they are doing. They are daddy shopping. Their life is ruined, so they figure they can dilute their troubles by burdening some young, stupid guy. Believe me, I know. When I was really young (and VERY STUPID) I got mixed up in one of these. Thank GOD I escaped the vile tentacles of that mess!! That was many years ago, but my own STUPIDITY still haunts me. I have tried to give advice to other young STUPID guys about to get mixed up with a pregnant (or wanna-get pregnant) woman, but they don't listen.
Is this stuff really common or something? Cf 4 Ever, you weren't stupid- far from it! You saw the light, and got the hell out of there. Chalk it up to a momentary lapse of reason.:-) I know it's a real site, but I can't help thinking that it's a big joke. It seems so, well...perverse. Maybe I'm a prude...